Some signs of a woman's deepening sexual attraction to you include: - Sitting with her inner thigh exposed. - Fidgeting with her clothes. She might even unfasten a button or two of her blouse. - She engages in "triangle gazing." She'll look at one of your eyes, then another, and then at your mouth. - You notice her stealing glimpses at your chest and even your crotch.

The problem is you can't just say, "Let's go to my place and have sex." With women you're on a first date with, whenever you verbalize anything sexual, it kills mood for her and results in you sleeping alone that night.

Instead, mention an innocent excuse for two of you to go to your place. (Examples could be, "You should come hear my 'Best of 80s' CD" or "That's awesome that you're so good with art... I have a painting in my living room that I'd love to get your opinion on")

Since two of you have an "innocent" reason to be alone together, it avoids triggering alarm bells in her mind that scream, "Uh oh! I don't want to be a slut!"

Once two of you are then alone, isolated at your place, you can set scene for seduction.

It can take several hours for woman to feel comfortable enough with you at your house, so you need to be patient.

Sit on your couch and watch a movie. Slowly escalate. Hold hands, stroke her hair, and so on from there.

Sexually, women are like irons. They heat up slowly. Keep that in mind and don't rush things, and you'll have your maximum shot at having sex on a first date.

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John Alexander is author of 7 Step Seduction System that takes you from saying " rel="nofollow"hello" to a new woman... to sharing orgasms in bed with her... in just one evening!

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In every conversation, there is always one person who is reacting more than other. The person who reacts less (i.e., is more relaxed of two) is more dominant, or alpha, person.

The person trying to win other's approval is one who's more attracted. So a girl will struggle to make small talk and keep conversation going as long as your value is higher than hers.

Women are attracted to men who are a challenge for them. If at some point it becomes clear that you're trying to win her approval, then there's no longer a challenge for her and she loses interest.

Keep alpha status and stay in control of situation right from beginning. Make sure to not ever react too much to what a girl says. Always remain more relaxed than her.

So answer to best way to begin a conversation with a woman is this: Don't try. Don't care what she thinks. Just say whatever you want.

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John Alexander is author of easy way to talk to girls. http://www.becomingalpha.com

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