How To Get Everything You Want Out of Life

Written by Robert Watson


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The next step takes no real effort, and strangely enough, it isrepparttar most difficult step forrepparttar 123292 average person to take.

FOURTH: COMMIT! Makerepparttar 123293 decision to achieve those goals, to strive forrepparttar 123294 things you want which will make your life and yourself all that much better. Make that commitment fromrepparttar 123295 heart, not atrepparttar 123296 lips! It will take time to really feel that commitment, and regularly reviewingrepparttar 123297 goals you've written down will make it possible to truly feel that commitment. You'll go through agonies at first and wonder if any of this is really worth it, and that'srepparttar 123298 point most people give up.

Remember this and you'll look forward to that agony. Every change comes with pain. It hurts to be born, to fall in love, to pass an exam, run a marathon. Once you start feeling that pain, know it for what it is - your old self screaming for life. Let your old self win and you lose!

Once you pass through that barrier of pain between what you are and what you want, you will know what it is worth every bit of discomfort. You've been through it before, and you'll needrepparttar 123299 memory of past incidents where you've made it to help you get through it.

You'll needrepparttar 123300 support of others, too. So you'll have to considerrepparttar 123301 people with whom, you spend most of your time. If they are not as interested in improving themselves as you are, it's time to expand your circle of friends to include those people, and make themrepparttar 123302 best you could want. Make your friends inspirations to you in your quest for a better life.

The final step is so simple and so tough it literally separatesrepparttar 123303 men fromrepparttar 123304 boys who will never grow up. It means sacrificing immediate pleasure for real satisfaction downrepparttar 123305 road, so if you're not ready to makerepparttar 123306 trade, go back two paces.

FIFTH: Spend every moment of your life inrepparttar 123307 most effective, efficient way possible inrepparttar 123308 pursuit of your goals. You'll never be able to do this as well as you will want to, but that's fine. Nobody spends all their time as effectively as humanly possible. The degree to which you can tune your desire torepparttar 123309 things you want and discipline yourself to dorepparttar 123310 things that lead to getting them - will determine how successful you will be.

Regardless of how weak you are now, you can and will increaserepparttar 123311 value your time and activities and garner more happiness than you might think fair only if you'll keep your failures in perspective. Think of them as lessons and gain something from them. Use your successes as a well of strength on which you can draw when you're ready to quit.

These simple steps arerepparttar 123312 true secret to getting what you want out of life. It has been proven time and time again by great men down trough history, and centuries from now. The words may change, butrepparttar 123313 ideas will berepparttar 123314 same.

For centuries men have tried to find ways of making this simple set of guidelines more complicated and more difficult to understand and follow. Most of them succeeded admirably. Most got what they wanted by doing so. What they really wanted was less than they set out to achieve. Getting what you truly want is so difficult precisely because it is so simple. Humans are very complex beings and thrive on making things even more complicated.

It might help to remember thatrepparttar 123315 foundation of every religion, belief, system and philosophy that has worked its way to a culture and taken root is personal happiness. In every case, happiness is achieved by reducing things to their simple possible elements.

Robert Watson is the Editor of Personal and Finance Confidential, a weekly Newsletter offering hundreds of tips, secrets, and inside information that can help YOU win the game of life. br> Email Robert at pfcreports@profitwonder.com or Visit http://www.profitwonder.com/Ezine/


Extraordinary People ... in Mediocre Times

Written by Edward B. Toupin


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When all need a hero, a hero is not to be found. That is whenrepparttar best hero we can have is ourselves. That may sound arrogant, but who would you rather be like: a better you, or someone else who might be where you think you want to be, but may have myriad other problems with which you would have to contend. Deal with your own and becomerepparttar 123291 better you!

We are all extraordinary and we all have something unique and phenomenal to contribute. However, we must learn to contribute to ourselves, first, and then considerrepparttar 123292 contribution torepparttar 123293 world around you. It is how you see and feel about yourself that reflects upon and influences your environment and society. Turn inward and exaltrepparttar 123294 extraordinary you. Learn thatrepparttar 123295 odd little nuances of life are there to strengthen you to create "extraordinary times."

--- Aboutrepparttar 123296 Author ---

Edward B. Toupin is an author, life-strategy coach, counselor, Reiki Master, technical writer, and PhD Candidate living in Las Vegas, NV. Among other things, he authors books, articles, and screenplays on topics ranging from career success through life organization and fulfillment. Check out some of his recent print and electronic books as well as his articles covering various life-changing topics!

For more information, e-mail Edward at etoupin@toupin.com or visit his site at http://www.make-life-great.com or http://www.toupin.com!

Copyright (c) 2004 Edward B. Toupin


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