If you use commands that sound threatening (by yelling a command), you can actually increase your horse's heart rate, frighten and confuse him, and he may take longer to learn.

For instance, a popular command to teach a horse is word "step". When driving a horse, using this command means for horse to move forward...take a step. When teaching it, be careful not to yell command because it may be perceived by horse as a punishment.

But if you calmly say "step" you will get better results than if you yell it. Often times, when a horse isn't "getting what you want", there's a tendency to get frustrated and thus, mad - and your voice volume can escalate. Then you're back to sounding threatening and perhaps your horse will take even longer to understand what you want.

I've seen where horses were being taught to drive where owner taught word "step". When teaching it, he would loudly say "STEP!". It wasn't long before horse was actually balking. Then owner was getting frustrated and kept repeating his command even louder...as if horse couldn't hear him.

It reminds me of a show I once saw on television. One english speaking man was talking with a spanish speaking man. The spanish speaking man knew no english. The english speaking man was trying to communicate with spanish speaking man. After a minute of obvious noncommunication, english speaking man spoke slower and louder. Unfortuantely, spanish speaking man didn't understand english whether or not it was spoke loud, soft, fast, or slow.

In summary, use short words. Use word when you want a certain action - only say word when you want that particular action. If you want your horse to slow down then say something like "easy". (Don't say "slow" because he may take it for "whoa".)

Next, associate actions with commands and calmly talk to your horse. Horses can hear very well and yelling command will not make command any more clear - if anything, it will frighten and confuse him.

Now begin gently touching gum tissue with your finger and rub along her gums and teeth as if your finger were a toothbrush. Let her get used to sensation. This is exactly way you would introduce a human baby to brushing, beginning with just her gums. Even before there are teeth, there are harmful bacteria. So don't worry about a tiny puppy who doesn't have a full set of teeth yet--rub her gums, swab out her little mouth with your finger, and get her used this kind of contact from her owner.

Your next step is to wrap gauze or a soft washcloth around your finger and rub gums on both outer and inner surfaces of teeth.

Finally, introduce a tooth brush in one small area. As your dog gets used to brush, you will be able to use it in place of gauze or washcloth. Remember to brush inside surfaces!

A little brushing a day, beginning with first step and working your way up gradually, will eventually lead to a one to two minute session. Your dog will learn that it doesn't hurt and that she gets a couple of minutes of your undivided attention every day. It generally takes 8 to 16 weeks to get there, but in end your dog will accept brushing as part of her daily routine.

If a little brushing is done every day at a set time, eventually your pet gets used to it, and some will even look forward to it. It will take most pet owners from 8-16 weeks until pet accepts it readily. Now pet realizes it doesn't hurt and that it will get 1-2 minutes of your undivided attention. Your pet enjoys your attention, and will eventually wait patiently for you to brush his teeth. There's a toothbrush with three heads that will allow you to brush all three surface of tooth at one time, which makes life a lot easier for both of you! It also has nice, soft bristles so you won't harm your pet's delicate gum tissue.

There are also products that can be rubbed on gums and added to drinking water to help reduce bacteria in an animal's mouth and promote dogs health and healing. Bad breath is actually a by-product of bacteria that populate mouth. They break down proteins and carbohydrates from your dog or cat's diet, and produce something called "volatile sulfur compounds", or VSC's. It's sulfur that make breath smell extra special!

Certain dental products have an agent that neutralizes VSC's. Many owners have commented that their cat or dog seems to like drinking water better when these products are added--even though they have no flavor! And there's a gel available that, although formulated for gums, can be very soothing for skin conditions, cuts, and surgical wounds thanks to Aloe Vera it contains.

The best oral care products work without use of fragrances and flavors, which entice human consumers, but don't benefit your cat or dogs health in any way! 

I was a practicing dentist for over 20 years, and I saw a lot of human patients who had terrible breath (and periodontal disease) and weren't even aware of it. People don't like to tell each other about bad breath. Even dentist has to be delicate with this piece of bad news.

At least when dealing with a pet, you don't have to worry about social embarrassment in order to address your dogs health problem! Don't be shy, get in there and do something about it. Not only can your dog get rid of her breath odor, but she could even live 2 to 5 years longer as a result. And you'll be able to get close again, without holding your breath.