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Some ideas for activities: speed dating, neighborhood gatherings, singles clubs, dances, group nature hikes, etc. Find these activities by looking in your local paper, surfing Internet, and listening to your local radio stations. Also ask your friends if they know of any fun group events.
7. Be More Social
Try to attend at least three social occasions a week right now -- perhaps a party, a singles event, and a work event.
These activities should not just consist of you and your friends going out. Do things that will expose you to new people. If you can manage more then three social events a week, you will be even better off. The more social you are, more people you will meet.
8. Be Happy
You want to shine and be attractive this holiday season. This can be somewhat achieved with stylish clothes, a good haircut, and jewelry and makeup for women.
However, it will be better achieved by being happy, which will make you shine from inside out. Make yourself happy by working on your attitude on a daily basis. Focus on being grateful for bounty of what you have, even if you feel that what you have is not enough.
9. Give and Be Generous
Give to friends and loved ones, but also give to strangers and charity. The more you give, more joyous and in holiday spirit you will feel.
The more joyous you feel, more attractive you will be to others. People want to be with joyous, happy people.
10. Make a Significant Emotional Shift
Learn something extraordinary and profound about yourself, your relationships, or your life. Transform some part of yourself. Change something so radically that you will have no doubt about change.
This will help you attract love now and will guarantee that your relationships will be better in future. Knowing this, you will enjoy holidays more.
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