Simply taking action is first step in solving problem of how to create anything you want in Life.

After all just knowing how to do something and actually being able to do it are two horses of a different color so to speak.

But this is an important first step and one that seems very simple and yet majority of people live their whole lives and never discover this amazing revelation.

Knowing this concept, next step to solving this problem is How do we create this unshakeable self-confidence, kind of unwavering belief that moves mountains and allows a person to get girl (or boy if they happen to be a girl) and create for themselves kind of life that others only dream about?

A hate to ruin story and give to you last page of book here, but way to achieving unwaverable self-confidence and belief is simply creating a goal of something you have never done before and than accomplishing that goal. But first in order to accomplish our goals we must define them.

Here in various areas of your life define goals you want to accomplish and than define them by writing them down.

Then simply believe everyday you are going to meet your goals. Do something everyday to build your belief muscle. When you believe people have a great habit of saying yes to you. Practice your belief level everyday.

Everyday embed in your subconscious mind that you believe you can do whatever you want to do. Think and act like you have already achieved your goal. This builds your level of belief. Every day tell yourself I know I can do this!

Here is what I would advise if you are new to this habit of establishing goals and writing them on paper. - Start with 1-2 goals that you are really interested in. Goals that if achieved will help you to better accomplish other goals or a goal of something that you really want badly.

Now this next part is what really helped me in accomplishing goals, by removing roadblocks in front of me.

Upon defining that goal or goals next step is to do a brainstorming exercise in following area. Write down 20 things on paper that you believe are items or thoughts, or beliefs that are currently holding you back from accomplishing your goal or goals.

Next focus on what you consider top 1-3 limitations that are holding you back from achieving your goals.

Now here is what I find exciting. Normally a person will have a couple of major hang-ups (limitations) that are preventing them from accomplishing their major goals in life. So by eliminating these limitations you basically eliminate vast percentage of road blocks that stand in way of you meeting all your other goals.

So what I suggest a person do is to set goals to remove these major limitations from their life. Making obtainment of their other goals much easier. And of course take some defined action everyday to remove these limitations from your life.

But best part is simply process of identifying ''hangups and limitations'' that are holding you back is half battle.