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7. WHERE IS THIS GOING? Nowhere fast if that’s your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that’s constantly worrying about
future. His actions or non-actions will tell you where it’s going. If it’s going somewhere, you’ll know it. If it’s not, you’ll know it too.
8. WE NEED TO TALK. This is equivalent of, “Go to principal’s office”. Guys know it’s not going to be a fun conversation, so they’re already on defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when both of you are relaxed. Don’t try to talk to him when he’s tired, stressed or trying to watch tv!
9. I HATE YOU! Even if you do, it’s totally uncalled for and un-lady like. If there’s an issue, be mature enough to discuss it when you’re calm. If he’s breaking up with you, reacting with anger may make you feel better temporarily, but it’s best to remain calm and act unfazed. He’ll wonder why you’re so cool about it and that may make him re-think his decision. Always be pleasant during a break up. Do you want to be known as girl that goes psycho if someone breaks up with her?? I didn’t think so.
10. I DON’T TRUST YOU. What you’re actually saying is, “You need to step up your game, because I can see you’re up to something.” If he is up to something, he’ll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb-it’ll be easier to get evidence you need to confirm your suspicions.
Lucia is a dating and relationship expert, columnist, lecturer and host of the TV Show "The Art of Love". With over 20 years experience on the relationship market, Lucia's practical know-how makes her the perfect candidate to dispense advice – in almost every dating dilemma she has been there, done that and lived to tell about it. To read more articles, go to: http://www.theartoflove.net
