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7. WHERE IS THIS GOING? Nowhere fast if thatís your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone thatís constantly worrying about future. His actions or non-actions will tell you where itís going. If itís going somewhere, youíll know it. If itís not, youíll know it too.
8. WE NEED TO TALK. This is equivalent of, ďGo to principalís officeĒ. Guys know itís not going to be a fun conversation, so theyíre already on defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when both of you are relaxed. Donít try to talk to him when heís tired, stressed or trying to watch tv!
9. I HATE YOU! Even if you do, itís totally uncalled for and un-lady like. If thereís an issue, be mature enough to discuss it when youíre calm. If heís breaking up with you, reacting with anger may make you feel better temporarily, but itís best to remain calm and act unfazed. Heíll wonder why youíre so cool about it and that may make him re-think his decision. Always be pleasant during a break up. Do you want to be known as girl that goes psycho if someone breaks up with her?? I didnít think so.
10. I DONíT TRUST YOU. What youíre actually saying is, ďYou need to step up your game, because I can see youíre up to something.Ē If he is up to something, heíll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb-itíll be easier to get evidence you need to confirm your suspicions.
Lucia is a dating and relationship expert, columnist, lecturer and host of the TV Show "The Art of Love". With over 20 years experience on the relationship market, Lucia's practical know-how makes her the perfect candidate to dispense advice Ė in almost every dating dilemma she has been there, done that and lived to tell about it. To read more articles, go to: http://www.theartoflove.net