He Didn't Lie to You, You Just Weren't Paying Attention

Written by Susan Dunn, MA, The EQ Coach


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Let’s takerepparttar example of male fidelity. However you feel about this intellectually, you know in your heart whether you can tolerate it or not. So let’s say it’s on your list of “must haves” that you want a man who will be faithful. When you meet someone, no matter how attractive he is, before you fall head over heels andrepparttar 105987 flowers and sweet words are warping your thinking brain, check it out. Find out his history. Ask around, look around. Give it some thought, and get some coaching to see what’s a pattern in his past, and what’s a mistake he’s been able to learn from. The more you understand about howrepparttar 105988 male brain works,repparttar 105989 betterrepparttar 105990 dating andrepparttar 105991 betterrepparttar 105992 eventual partnership.

Then distance yourself fromrepparttar 105993 emotions, and take a cold, hard look at how things are inrepparttar 105994 present. Notice how he acts when he’s with you, not just what he says, or promises. Get some help and guidance with this, because it’s important.

You need to know what you’re getting in for before you’re in deep water. In response to our extensive research and interviews with women about “the other woman,” we started a very discrete investigative and coaching service with this in mind. Most women find it’s best to do this at arm’s length, and let someone else with a clearer head and experience dorepparttar 105995 work and provide some direction. There are certain clues that can tip you off ahead of time, and “a stitch in time, saves 9.” In this case it can save your heart, time and energy, all of which are important. Important also, is that it can save you adding negative “baggage” to your own scene. Know those women who are in to “male bashing?” Stick withrepparttar 105996 good guys and you won’t have to go there.

Intuition is a major part of EQ. If you’re hearing things, or seeing things that send off an alarm, don’t ignore them. Take action while you’re still thinking clearly. The longer you stay in a relationship,repparttar 105997 more likely you’ll get into your own head and get confused; that’s what “love” is all about.

You don’t want to be “sadder but wiser” again, do you? Use your EQ and start datingrepparttar 105998 emotionally intelligent way – using both your head AND your heart.

©Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc helps women find the relationship they dream of and is the author of “Midlife Dating Survival Manual for Women.” Coaching Internet courses, discrete investigative service, ebooks. mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc .



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