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Reb Shlomo Carlebach was once asked which kind of niggunim (melodies) were among his favorite. He answered
ones that you can cry to, laugh to and dance with, all at
same time. For all of us who knew Jerry's music. there is no better way to describe
relationship we had with it. His music clearly came from a very lofty place. A place that can and has changed our lives forever in but a few precious moments. Our job in remembering Jerryis in holding on to those precious moments, forever.
Being that we lost our dear friend Jerry Garcia just before Shabbos Nachamu,
Shabbat of comforting in
Jewish tradition I want to share a comforting teaching from our own holy Reb Shlomo with anybody who has ever suffered loss.
"As much as it takes a lot of holiness and depth to know howto laugh, it takes even more holiness to know how to cry. But it's important that you know one thing that all
rebbes say,
Baal Shem, Reb Nachman, all
rebbes: That even while you're sad, don't ever stop being filled with joy. You are absolutely not permitted, even for one split second, to stop being filled with joy. Because if you truly believe there is One G-d in
world, then you also believe that He is taking care of our world as well. So how could you be sad. But yet,
problem is, I'm still a human being and I'm still so sad, so broken.
So
question is, how do I reach that level to be so sad, and while I'm still sad, I'm at
same time so filled with joy? What should my crying sound like at this point? Like Reb Akiva says, I have no choice, I'm crying with one side of my heart and laughing, with
other side of my heart. Gevaldt, is that hard. But it's
only way we know right now, and it's
holiest way we know right now.
You don't have to be a Deadhead, or be into Shlomo, or even be a Jew to connect with these holy words. All you have to be is a human being with a heart. But even a heart is not enough, as Shlomo has taught us. It has to be a heart with a little broken place in it. For a heart with a broken place in it, really is
greatest blessing of all. For if you don't have that broken place inside of you, then you are full. Those that are completely full, full of themselves and their own concerns, do not have any room left in them for G-d, for holiness, for things divine and especially, for other people. So I bless you and I, and
whole world with just a little bit of a broken heart, not too broken, G-d forbid,but broken enough so that we are no longer blind to each other's needs. The truth is, that now more than ever, we really do need each other. Now that all our rebbes are "headlights on a north bound train", we really need each other in
deepest way. "There comes a time" and that time has surely arrived! The holy truth is, that we are all living together in
Uni - Verse, singing
same songs. even
same verse, and it's just a matter of time that we truly realize it, together.
Wishing you
holiest of moments and all blessings Divine.
Michael Ozair www.kabbalahcoach.com

Rabbi Michael Ozair is a spiritual life coach, counselor and is available for consultantion. He can be reached at coach@kabbalahcoach.com or by visiting his site at KabbalahCoach.com