HOW TO SEAL THE DEAL IN SEVEN SECONDS

Written by Lydia Ramsey


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7. FINE TUNE YOUR HANDSHAKE.

The first move you make when meeting your prospective client is to put out your hand. There isn’t a businessperson anywhere who can’t tell you thatrepparttar good business handshake should be a firm one. Yet time and again people offer up a limp hand torepparttar 104633 client. You’ll be assured of giving an impressive grip and getting off to a good start if you position your hand to make complete contact withrepparttar 104634 other person’s hand. Once you’ve connected, close your thumb overrepparttar 104635 back ofrepparttar 104636 other person’s hand and give a slight squeeze. You’ll haverepparttar 104637 beginning of a good business relationship.

8. MAKE INTRODUCTIONS WITH STYLE.

It does matter whose name you say first and what words you use when making introductions in business. Because business etiquette is based on rank and hierarchy, you want to honorrepparttar 104638 senior or highest ranking person by saying his name first. Whenrepparttar 104639 client is present, he is alwaysrepparttar 104640 most important person. Sayrepparttar 104641 client’s name first and introduce other people torepparttar 104642 client. The correct words to use are “I’d like to introduce...” or “I’d like to introduce to you...” followed byrepparttar 104643 name ofrepparttar 104644 other person.

9. NEVER LEAVE THE OFFICE WITHOUT YOUR BUSINESS CARDS.

Your business cards and how you handle them contribute to your total image. Have a good supply of them with you at all times since you never know when and where you will encounter a potential client. How unimpressive is it to ask for a person’s card and have them say, “ Oh, I’m sorry. I think I just gave my last one away.” You getrepparttar 104645 feeling that this person has already met everyone he wants to know. Keep your cards in a card case or holder where they are protected from wear and tear. That way you will be able to find them without a lot of fumbling around, and they will always be in pristine condition.

10.MATCH YOUR BODY LANGUAGE TO YOUR VERBAL MESSAGE.

A smile or pleasant expression tells your clients that you are glad to be with them. Eye contact says you are paying attention and are interested in what is being said. Leaning in towardrepparttar 104646 client makes you appear engaged and involved inrepparttar 104647 conversation. Use as many signals as you can to look interested and interesting.

Inrepparttar 104648 business environment, you plan your every move with potential clients. You arrange forrepparttar 104649 appointment, you prepare forrepparttar 104650 meeting, you rehearse forrepparttar 104651 presentation, but in spite of your best efforts, potential clients pop up inrepparttar 104652 most unexpected places and atrepparttar 104653 most bizarre times. For that reason, leave nothing to chance. Every time you walk out of your office, be ready to make a powerful first impression.

Lydia Ramsey is a business etiquette expert, professional speaker, corporate trainer and author of MANNERS THAT SELL – ADDING THE POLISH THAT BUILDS PROFITS. She has been quoted or featured in The Wall Street Journal, Investors’ Business Daily, Cosmopolitan and Woman’s Day. For more information about her programs, products and services, e-mail her at lydia@mannersthatsell.com or visit her web site: www. mannersthatsell.com


The Top Twelve E-Mail Mistakes That Can Sabotage Your Career

Written by Lydia Ramsey


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7.WRITING THE GREAT AMERICAN NOVEL. E-mail is meant to be brief. Keep your message short. Use only a few paragraphs and a few sentences per paragraph. People skim their e-mail so a long missive is wasted. If you find yourself writing an overly long message, pick uprepparttar phone or call a meeting.

8.FORWARDING E-MAIL WITHOUT PERMISSION. Most everyone is guilty of this one, but think about it. Ifrepparttar 104632 message was sent to you and only you, why would you take responsibility for passing it on? Too often confidential information has gone global because of someone’s lack of judgment. Unless you are asked or request permission, do not forward anything that was sent just to you.

9.THINKING THAT NO ONE ELSE WILL EVER SEE YOUR E-MAIL. Once it has left your mailbox, you have no idea where your e-mail will end up. Don’t userepparttar 104633 Internet to send anything that you couldn’t stand to see on a billboard on your way to workrepparttar 104634 next day. Use other means to communicate personal or sensitive information.

10.LEAVING OFF YOUR SIGNATURE. Always close with your name, even though it is included atrepparttar 104635 top ofrepparttar 104636 e-mail, and add contact information such as your phone, fax and street address. The recipient may want to call you to talk further or send you documents that cannot be e-mailed. Creating a formal signature block with all that data isrepparttar 104637 most professional approach.

11.EXPECTING AN INSTANT RESPONSE. Not everyone is sitting in front ofrepparttar 104638 computer with e-mail turned on. The beauty of Internet communication is that it is convenient. It is not an interruption. People can check their messages when it suits them, not you. If your communication is so important that you need to hear back right away, userepparttar 104639 phone.

12.COMPLETING THE “TO” LINE FIRST. The name or address ofrepparttar 104640 person to whom you are writing is actuallyrepparttar 104641 last piece of information you should enter. Check everything else over carefully first. Proof for grammar, punctuation, spelling and clarity. Did you say what needed to be said? How was your “tone of voice”? If you wererepparttar 104642 least bit emotional when you wroterepparttar 104643 e-mail, did you let it sit for a period of time? Did you includerepparttar 104644 attachment you wanted to send? If you enterrepparttar 104645 recipient’s name first, a mere slip ofrepparttar 104646 finger can send a message before its’ time. You can never take it back.

E-mail makes everything easier and faster including making a powerful business impression and establishing positive professional relationships. The businessperson who usesrepparttar 104647 technology effectively and appropriately will seerepparttar 104648 results of that effort reflected inrepparttar 104649 bottom line.

Lydia Ramsey is a business etiquette expert, professional speaker, corporate trainer and author of MANNERS THAT SELL – ADDING THE POLISH THAT BUILDS PROFITS. She has been quoted or featured in The Wall Street Journal, Investors’ Business Daily, Cosmopolitan and Woman’s Day. For more information about her programs, products and services, e-mail her at lydia@mannersthatsell.com or visit her web site:www.mannersthatsell.com


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