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Sure, email does seem more casual than a phone call, but too many of us get carried away with
blank space on page. If you absolutely have to contact him, make it short. Don’t gush over how handsome he is or how much you miss him. Don’t tell him you are dying to see him. In other words, don’t be desperate. Try something like: “I had a great time with you other night and would enjoy seeing you again. Feel free to call anytime.” THAT’S IT! Don’t go any further or you risk being put on his “too needy” list.
If he is just not interested that is something you are going to have to deal with. Don’t just sit around and wait for his call. Move on and move forward. Meet more people and get your life rolling. If he eventually calls, great! Just don’t count on it and waste your life waiting.
*Names are changed to protect anonymity
Jennifer Lester is an online dating expert who offers her advice and guidance through the world of online dating at her website: http://www.lovepersonally.com – The tour guide to your online dating experience.
