Sadly sometimes a new distant sibling doesn’t get message that they aren’t liked. When explaining this, be gentle. They may not understand why they are hated. If sibling tries to continue approaching, trying to be close…it may result in a big blow up in siblings face. Some signs a sibling doesn’t like you are : Cross arms, minimum eye contact and annoyed that you are trying to talk to them.

Do "manila envelope" exercise each day for 10 days straight. At end of 10 days empty all envelopes and begin to sort contents by a pattern, or something that lies beneath specific thing that triggered attraction to it. Some things were just random ideas, but you will find a pattern of things in others that stayed with you over 10 days. These ideas that stayed with you over time is where you should concentrate your efforts to find what you truly want to do.

Take these core interests and explore jobs related to them without concern for money, or other factors. Can you do them part time, can you take courses related to them

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