¤ And best, a bell man screaming at my husband and I to open our door on our wedding night as he thought we were having a huge party (it was next door) –although my husband always likes saying we made way too much noise that night.

In hindsight, it’s all really humorous (well except my dad part)! Make sure you grab your humour on your wedding day about all things that are out of your control! If you can’t seem to find humour, try to do a few relaxation techniques such as:

¤ Tighten muscles in your toes. Hold for a count of 10. Relax and enjoy sensation of release from tension.

¤ Breathe deeply and slowly.

¤ Get a quick breath of fresh air! A quick walk can give you a much-needed “time-out” which will release some tension. Try to also designate someone to take care of details that you just don’t need to worry about. For example, have a friend in charge of catering or someone for music etc. When a problem arises, bride usually hears and then you can just tell your friend and forget about it. You don’t need to be wasting your time fighting with catering or disc jockey.

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¤ Do you have a love of golf or bowling? Get married right on premises! Walk down first tee or down bowling lane into your loved ones arms.

¤ Is there a historic building in your area? Check out your local listings for buildings or restaurants with some “haunting” effect.

¤ Love thought of travel; jetting off into sky. See if you can hold your wedding in a local airplane hanger.

¤ Other places to consider are: Beaches, Gardens, Plantations, Vineyards, Parks or Zoos!

Anything can work just use your imagination and go for it!

Kari White is an experienced event and wedding planner. As a result of numerous requests, she has now completed the Unique Theme Wedding Planning Guide which can be found at her web site along with a free weekly newsletter. Do yourself a favor and check it out today.