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In this case
expectant couple (she and
daddy) can play and dream with all
gifts while awaiting their dream baby. For
second and subsequent babies, baby showers (also called sprinkles) can be held before or after
baby is born. The upside of holding
baby shower after
baby's birth is that gifts can be chosen by
sex of
baby and mother is more relaxed.
As per
old tradition, a baby shower is only held for
first baby. However,
modern view is that baby showers can be held for successive babies as well. Frankly speaking, it is a matter of personal preference and we have seen baby showers for 4th or 5th babies.
However, it is considered to be a good idea if
hostess can confirm and discuss with
guest of honor and potential guests how they feel about holding a second or third. If a majority of
people agree, you have all
reasons you need to go ahead with
shower.
Generally gifts for
subsequent baby showers are being targeted to more useful everyday items. Those that
baby may need and most of
time they are less expensive than for
first baby. However, nothing can stop you if you wish to give more expensive gifts on any subsequent showers.
My personal viewpoint is that a baby shower should be held for every baby. Moreover, showers are not just gift giving and taking rituals, but something more than that. They are given to bless and congratulate
mom-to-be and her family. But that is just my personal opinion, so go with what you have planned either way.
Baby showers are a time tested noble celebration. A social event and a good excuse for friends and family to get together and to celebrate
birth of a baby.
Moreover, in recent times pregnancies and deliveries have become quite an expensive affair. So this could help
parents financially as well.
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