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Long before Tantra or Bhakti Yoga there were many things ancients probably learned from intercourse, even more than most people do today. Today we have drugs like Viagra to enhance
longevity of
sexual encounter. The Mayans have natural drug for this. There are so many things which keep us busy or deflect us from spiritual insight as is noted in many Eastern systems which refer to
‘busy-mind’ or samsara and
illusion of Maya.
Second degree Wiccan students who have advanced through a rigorous training in esoteric knowledge begin a quest that many would regard as perverse pursuit of pleasure and self-gratification. The partners are often involved in other committed relationships. When a man and a woman who are interested in spiritual growth combine to experience
Tantric or Bhakti (Yoga) or ritualistic growth potential to free more than just their personal self or ego to reach
heights of spiritual or psychic possibilities; who can say what is real and what is imagined. This effort to commune with spirit is termed ‘working partners’ and
allies or guides is who they really seek to merge or work with. The imagination is undoubtedly a part of
dynamic. It isn't necessary for them to care for each other in
way lovers do. I have not done this ‘work’.
Many people talk about 'soulmates' or 'dual flames' and
words become mere shadows of
real potential. At
same time sex is a dirty 'word', and act, in much of society.
What can a writer say to convey
essence of all these things?
If I absolve myself from
challenge of integrating these concepts, rituals and soulful realities I would simply say trust your soul and know that wherever you may go you will find something more than whatever you thought was real to begin with.
If I talk about 'la petite mort' or empathic attunements with
soul of
partner that allows
self to disintegrate and become part of something larger than one person; and almost dissolve in
vastness of spirit - it will only seem like prose and poetry. The phrase ‘la petite mort’ or ‘the little death’ can in fact lead to a Kundalini type experience which can cause death.
Of course, one can wax eloquent and carry on at length about any of their hopes and desires. The essence of a great working partner most probably has little to do with these aspirations and more to do with
way
soul interpenetrates all people. The glimpses of insight gained through empathy and love with those who shared my needs are special to me and will forever stay in
part of my soul (if there is such a part) that cherishes all we were and hungers for what we could have been.
To deprecate
witch who 'draws down
moon' into their partner on
path to worship of things no one can fully know is
stuff of fearful and insecure people. That kind of bigotry without actual experience is rampant in all areas of society. It is truly just
tip of
proverbial iceberg when one contemplates all
ways mankind has developed to separate himself from what we are collectively and what god truly wishes for us to realize. No amount of constant seeking or obsession with these pursuits will ever get a man any closer to his soul than what he was while in his mother's womb.
The joy and creativity of
challenge to know is as great a gift as our maker can give us - except perhaps
acquiescence to
soul within
loved one you are blessed to have
chance to know and share your life with. In
moment of creation each day as we grow and learn to be, we are forever drawn by some force that seeks greater harmony and purpose for all energy.
Many (if not most) people think
24 hour orgasm is like alien abductions but
EEG and other ways of measuring physical responses would convince them otherwise. A similar number of people find
misuse of Tantric Yoga by
likes of Crowley and Hubbard is tantamount to whatever is evil in man. I say they are right, but that is not
fault of Tantric Yoga. These techniques are very seductive and in some ways
participants would choose to have
experience even if they knew a great deal about it because it is a sad truism that Masters and Johnson or Kinsey are right. They say a full third of women never have an orgasm through intercourse.
Many people seldom enjoy sex and some significant number of
rest of us are in varying stages of poor to decent ability and openness to what great learning sex can provide. It could be said that our sexual relations are a good barometer of
state of society. I favour sex education and all
opportunities and responsibilities that go with
natural and soulful functions of
act. It is easy to understand why some people are hesitant to have strangers teach their loved ones about sex. But Father Leo Booth is right when he notes that parents who repress their children or foist suppressive behavior upon them are just as guilty of abuse.
1) Rudolph Ballentine, M. D., Radical Healing, Harmony Books, New York, 1999, pgs. 75-6, we have Dorothy Shepherd, The Action of
Minimum Dose, pg. 13. 2) Ibid. 3) http://www.suppressedscience.net/physics.html 4) Bob Gottfried Ph. D., Shortcut to Spirituality: mastering
art of Inner Peace, Deeper Dimension Publishing, North York, Ontario, 2004, pgs. 53-4.

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