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Talk with your Elder about Convenience of Mass Transit - Many mass transit authorities have special services and special fares for elderly and disabled. Check with your local transit authority. And talk with your elder about how nice it is to be able to enjoy scenery while someone else does driving.
Give Your Elder a Refresher Course - Not only will a refresher course improve road awareness, it may help your elder earn a discount on his car insurance. Courses and informative pamphlets are available from AARP, AAA, and AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety. You'll find links to these sites at end of this article.
Report unsafe driving to your local Department of Public Safety. They may have additional help to offer you.
"Break" Car - My teenagers unplugged a few vital wires when my father, who suffers from Alzheimer's disease, refused to relinquish keys. We knew his cognitive ability was far too impaired for him to recognize problem, and he was always comforted when we said we'd have car repaired "soon."
Remove Keys - Distract your elder from finding "lost" keys by offering an immediate alternative way to go somewhere. While this may be most unpleasant way to stop your elder from driving, remember that you are not only protecting him but all rest of us as well.
And what happened to my aunt? She got a ticket from a wonderful traffic officer whom we all blessed on a daily basis! Fearing loss of her auto insurance, she voluntarily gave up driving.
Web Resources
Driving Safely While Aging Gracefully is a free booklet you can read online.
AARP offers a refresher course for elderly drivers as well as a number of other helpful resources. See their site at http://www.aarp.org/55alive/.
AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety has a terrific new site, seniordrivers.org, that you shouldn't miss if you're a senior driver or have a senior driver in your family. Exercises, examples of perceptual loss due to aging, emergency tips, and much, much more - all free. Please don't miss it!
For more in depth information on elderly drivers, see OLR research report
Phyllis Staff, Ph.D. - Phyllis Staff is an experimental psychologist and the CEO of The Best Is Yet.Net, an internet company that helps seniors and caregivers find trustworthy residential care. She is the author of How to Find Great Senior Housing: A Roadmap for Elders and Those Who Love Them. She is also the daughter of a victim of Alzheimer's disease. Visit the author's web site at http://www.thebestisyet.net.