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These are a few of
symptoms of social anxiety as experienced in life areas and physically. Many folks have social anxiety but do not realize that this is what they struggle with. Oftentimes thinking about or engaging in any of
activities listed above will induce anxiety.
The real danger with this disorder is that it can subtly grow into a monster. Left unattended, social anxiety can reshape
life that you should be living into one that is centered around avoidance of anxiety. Some of you are aware that you have anxiety and fight with it constantly. Many others are not aware of anxiety as
culprit, even though it's impacting all these life areas. That's powerful!
Ongoing social anxiety can result in developing a pattern of avoidance, whereby you begin putting off many of life's activities. Too often, you have only
best of excuses, but if you suffer from social anxiety, it's really anxiety driving your life's bus.
There are many keys in
overcoming of anxiety. At
top is bolstering your self-confidence. Ironically enough,
more withdrawn you become while feeing anxious and avoiding activities,
stronger
social anxiety becomes.
A FEW KEY AREAS TO TARGET IN OVERCOMING SOCIAL ANXIETY:
1. Participate in activities which increase esteem and a sense of personal safety
2. Establish an area of expertise or mastery and allowing those abilities to be present in anxiety situations
3. Learn relaxation strategies that become serenity-hygiene habits
4. Challenge irrational thought patterns that support
anxiety
5. Keep an anxiety scale journal to chart goals and progress
6. Seek a caring individual to hold you accountable to your goals
7. Know that peace and anxiety cannot exist at
same time. Any ritual which brings peace into your life is a great tool to use to eliminate anxiety
8. Practice knowing that you are loved and have a right to live a joy-filled life!
This is your life! If you find yourself angry over being anxious, that's GOOD -- but only if you direct your anger at anxiety and allow it to become an energizer in your efforts to reclaim your life.
