When you accept responsibility for situations that affect you and enjoy humorous side of life, your perspective and your approach will be more balanced. You will be able to function better under stress and be able to move forward with ease.

Realize that we all fail or make mistakes at some time in our life. Lighten up! You'll bounce back from disappointments and embarrassing moments more quickly, and more people will have a greater respect for you --- and you for yourself.

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Edward B. Toupin is an author, life-strategy coach, counselor, Reiki Master, technical writer, and PhD Candidate living in Las Vegas, NV. Among other things, he authors books, articles, and screenplays on topics ranging from career success through life organization and fulfillment. Check out some of his recent print and electronic books as well as his articles covering various life-changing topics!

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Of course, that would eliminate separations of political and belief-based organizations. Of course, this could also eliminate desire to move forward in life as idea of competition on many levels would change. Instead of working to win, become rich, and attain power, we would work for betterment in ourselves, of ourselves, for each other, and to increase our own internal power.

The idea of using external influences and deities is primarily based on one's belief system and as such is necessary for many to establish a spiritual side. As noted, it is easier to offload one's own responsibilities and destiny on to a faith-based entity than to accept that we choose and define our own destinies. But, to resolve, it is essential to replace that belief with a sense of reality; however, that is a slow and laborious process that will take centuries to unravel as it took centuries to instill.

In long run, your internal beliefs and desires are only things that can provide you with a life of wonder and excitement that overshadows inevitability of death. As they say, two things you can count on are "death and taxes." So, such circumstances are inevitable and cannot be avoided. Therefore, they should not be planned into your life! Taxes will happen every year on April 15th and death will occur when it occurs. But, sitting and waiting in interim for "inevitable" won't make it go away, nor will it make it easier to manage. Life is only thing that you have control over, so your only options are, sit quietly and die inside until your physical death catches up to you. Or, you can live life to its fullest and not worry about what will happen in 40 or 50 years. Just worry about how well you can live right now and create something solid for "memory banks."

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Edward B. Toupin is an author, life-strategy coach, counselor, Reiki Master, technical writer, and PhD Candidate living in Las Vegas, NV. Among other things, he authors books, articles, and screenplays on topics ranging from career success through life organization and fulfillment. Check out some of his recent print and electronic books as well as his articles covering various life-changing topics!

For more information, e-mail Edward at etoupin@toupin.com or visit his site at http://www.make-life-great.com or http://www.toupin.com!