Do You Make These Common Mistakes When Talking to People?

Written by Peter Murphy


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I also know people who learnedrepparttar same peak performance strategies I learned. Today they are no farther ahead than they were years ago.

How did they pull that off?

By putting it off until another day and by neglecting to use what they had learned. Implementation is crucial.

If you do this your progress is a certainty.

3. Attempting To Be Original

Many years ago I put myself under huge pressure by expecting myself to be original with each person I met.

This is a sure-fire strategy for failure and a great way to get stressed out for no reason.

Guess what I later discovered?

There is no need to be original. You can haverepparttar 129652 same conversation all day long with different people and nobody will suspect a thing!

People are happy to talk about mundane topics because there is no effort involved.

I have lived or worked in several countries including Ireland, England, Germany, Holland, Spain andrepparttar 129653 U.S.

And everywhere I have been people are happy to talk all day about:

-repparttar 129654 weather - their children -repparttar 129655 new movie -repparttar 129656 family pet -repparttar 129657 boss -repparttar 129658 traffic

You getrepparttar 129659 idea!

Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at: http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/report.htm


How to Give Yourself a Motivational Warm Up When You Wake Up

Written by Peter Murphy


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- Positive thoughts bring merepparttar benefits I desire

- Negative thoughts have no influence over me

- Everyday and in everyway I am getting better and better

To startrepparttar 129650 day with confidence...

- I am confident and charming withrepparttar 129651 people I meet

- I radiate confidence and relaxation

- I start great conversations easily and effortlessly

- I approve of myself and feel great about myself

- I have sky-high self-esteem

You can dorepparttar 129652 same.

Remember to say these affirmations with feeling and do so quietly inside your head while in that relaxed awakening state.

Unless I use this ritual each morning I tend to feel negative aboutrepparttar 129653 day ahead. The difference from feeling negative to feeling positive is huge forrepparttar 129654 sake of those few minutes inrepparttar 129655 morning.

You can also go one step further and imaginerepparttar 129656 day ahead working out well. See yourself doing your best and easily dealing with challenges. Imagine yourself feeling confident and behaving in that way no matter who you deal with.

Imagine you will have a great day in this way and you are directing your unconscious to make it happen inrepparttar 129657 language it understands best - feelings and images.

Forget about will power.

Will power is a waste of time because itīs like talking torepparttar 129658 most powerful part of your mind in a language it does not understand.

Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at: http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/report.htm


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