Unmonitored systems typically have on-site alarms and/or flashing lights that indicate security system has been breached. It relies on neighbors to see and hear alarms and then to call police. Neighbors or passersby should never investigate an alarm themselves. With an unmonitored system, it is best to have a combination of strobe lights and alarms. They should be located on street side of house and in a location that is as inaccessible as possible.

The advantage of this system is that a burglar's primary goal is to gain entrance to property and remove valuables without being noticed. Many burglars will flee once alarms and lights have been activated. The disadvantage is fact that system relies on neighbors who might not be home or might not want to get involved.

The cost of average system, which includes either motion detectors inside house or sensors around windows and doors, is about $1,200 plus a monthly fee for a monitored-type system. There several levels of alarm systems on market and some are well-suited to handy do-it-yourselfer, while most effective are probably best left to a professional alarm company.

Whichever system you choose, remember: Security Systems, alone, do not prevent thieves from breaking into homes. A good security plan should include strong, secure window, door and lock products; good security habits (always locking doors and windows and night or when house is vacant); and human surveillance, such as a well-trained neighborhood watch program.

With a little planning and a few financial resources you can provide safety for your family, your car and your business.

Final tip--sliding patio doors are one of most vulnerable entry points in your home. They can be secured inexpensively with a hinged baar that holds operating panel shut.

Praise your child when your child has given up pacifier and tell her you are proud that she is growing up.

Allow your child to express his feelings and if your child is upset or angry, give him special cuddles to help him cope.

If your child asks for pacifier again (and she probably will), don’t give in. Remind her that pacifier is gone and that she is grown up now.