Do's and Don'ts for men on dating sites

Written by Leif Croonquist


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4) DON'T contact single women if you are married. It is a waste of their time and is an insult. DO read their profile and see if they are interested in married men.

5) DON'T lie. DON'T lie. DON'T lie. Enough said.

6) DO not send women pictures of your "privates". They will ask if they want to see that. DO send them a nice picture that shows your sense of humor or style.

7) DON'T just send an email after you see their picture. DO read their profile first.

8) DON'T harass women that are not interested. This ruinsrepparttar site for everyone and could very well get you banned fromrepparttar 101303 dating site forever. Many sites now have reporting features for this very reason. DO treat all others onrepparttar 101304 site as though you were talking in person to them. You would harass them to their face would you?

This is just a small list of some ofrepparttar 101305 incredibly stupid things guys are doing on Internet dating and singles sites. Now of course there are some great guys out there that are honestly looking for a nice date or relationship so any women reading this, just bear with us, we men are slowing catching up and figuring it out.

Hope this article helps.

Leif Croonquist is 34 years old and lives in Portland, Oregon. He is the owner and creator of www.cupidsblackbook.com . He invites you to join if you behave ;)


Are You Inviting Misery into Your Life?

Written by C. Bailey-Lloyd/LadyCamelot


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But how does that invite misery? Well, it doesn't invite misery into our own lives, but it does in Joe's case. Joe knows that he has allrepparttar tools at his disposal to fix part or all ofrepparttar 101302 situation. It's not that Joe can't fixrepparttar 101303 problem, it's that he doesn't want to fixrepparttar 101304 problem. Repairing situations takes effort, dedication and sometimes, sacrifice - it is much easier to complain about it. In Joe's case, turning his son in for neglect may severrepparttar 101305 ties of his complex father-son relationship. He feels instant guilt and betrayal should he file a report. He doesn't want to stop his son from using him because he may sever ties of communication with him. Instead, he would rather uphold an abusive relationship with his own grown son, knowing that his grandson is in harm's way forrepparttar 101306 sake of preserving his relationship with him. This is a classical example of inviting misery into one's life.

Joe has subconsciously invited misery to become his partner in everyday life. He lives in constant debate on whether he's doingrepparttar 101307 'right thing.' He is angry that his son has grown into a volatile person, and he is scared for his grandson's health. But still, he accepts this self-induced fate. Joe cannot controlrepparttar 101308 actions of his son, but, he can control his own actions. If he permits his son to burden him with his behavior, dirty laundry and leaching, then he has invariably created his own problem. If Joe has knowledge that his grandson is being neglected, it is by choice that he allowsrepparttar 101309 neglect to continue. Only Joe hasrepparttar 101310 power to choose.

As human beings, we are often faced with difficult choices in life. And many times, it is much easier to worry and complain. Though difficult decisions may arise, we still haverepparttar 101311 option to create more livable environments by directing ourselves in more constructive pattens. There are many 'Joes' out there with lesser or more complex problems thanrepparttar 101312 fictional Joe in this article; however, you - nor I - can help him. Joe has to help himself first.

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© 2005 - Are You Inviting Misery into Your Life? by C. Bailey-Lloyd aka. LadyCamelot

Disclaimer: Literature provided by HolisticJunction.com is intended for educational purposes only and is not intended to substituterepparttar 101313 advice provided by a licensed health professional

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