Discrimination - The First Law of Success

Written by Oscar Bruce


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Albert Einstein is quoted as follows. "The definition of insanity is doingrepparttar same things and expecting a different outcome." In my book "Winning Words Winning Ways" I makerepparttar 128833 salient point, "Your future will be exactly like your past unless you make major changes."

Now that we've coveredrepparttar 128834 primary liability that holds most people back, I'm going to sharerepparttar 128835 powerful dynamic that will provide allrepparttar 128836 best that life has to offer.

Sincerepparttar 128837 mind and life abhor a vacuum, you will need new and better friends. This will require new, personal communication skills to make you appealing in better circles. You will need new words and phrases to make your conversation sizzle. That is upgradingrepparttar 128838 way you verbalize your ideas and feelings.

Why are new communications skills and new conversation topic important? Big things happen when you sayrepparttar 128839 little things right. And, you'd be surprised at what you can get when you ask for itrepparttar 128840 right way. The power superior verbal skills will give you has absolutely no limit.

You must become a word specialist, a person who paints beautiful pictures with an invisible brush of magical words, a skilled verbal artist whose conversation is both persuasive and compelling. That draws people to you. They compete to be with you.

You don't see eagles

Hanging out with sparrows.

Onrepparttar 128841 other hand, throughrepparttar 128842 process of Psycho-Semantics there are also certain words and phrases that will be uplifting and tend to expandrepparttar 128843 mind's perception and vision. Select words and phrases that helprepparttar 128844 mind to see opportunities previously overlooked.

You don't see eagles hanging out with sparrows do you? After all, gutter language wouldn't work well inrepparttar 128845 office of your company's C.E.O. "If you want to hang withrepparttar 128846 natives, you'd better speakrepparttar 128847 native tongue. Within that simple sentence liesrepparttar 128848 reason that "discrimination isrepparttar 128849 first law of success." Chose your friends and associate carefully. DISCRIMINATE SAVAGELY.

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Shooting From the Lip...It's a deadly game

Written by Oscar Bruce


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So what I call quick-draw, "shooting fromrepparttar lip" words or comments are opportunity killers. Although some try to fluff them off as just "misspeak" they are still irreversible disasters inrepparttar 128830 making. "Of course if your language tools are limited and your verbal options are in short supply, you are just shooting blanks. Your verbal options probably need expanding. Learning and crafting your message with new, powerful and influential words and phrases is a must in our "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression" world.

WHY DO SMART PEOPLE SAY STUPID THINGS?

It's all about habit.

Somewhere in our past we heard our habitual pop-off comments and thought they were clever. We adopted them into our speech patterns. But what you thought was clever may sound mean or smart-aleck to others. That favorite expression so carelessly thrown out could live on to haunt you for life.

SO WHAT'S THE SOLUTION? As Mark Twain said "The secret to good conversation is leaving outrepparttar 128831 wrong words."

Sorepparttar 128832 solution is simple, throw outrepparttar 128833 old and replace with a verbal upgrade. Acquire new alternative ways of expressing yourself. Make your conversations so powerful others want to be with you and give you your way. You'll be surprised what you can get when you ask for itrepparttar 128834 right way. Better words always make things better.

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The Author, Oscar Bruce isrepparttar 128835 ultimate personal communications guru. His dynamic books are consideredrepparttar 128836 field manuals for mastering conversation and confrontations. His website offers several verbal strategies that can add power to your conversations.

HIS FREE NEWSLETTER "Talk Tips" is available at http://www.oscarbruce.com

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The Author, Oscar Bruce is the ultimate personal communications guru. His dynamic books are considered the field manuals for mastering conversation and confrontations. His website offers several verbal strategies that can add power to your conversations.

HIS FREE NEWSLETTER "Talk Tips" is available at http://www.oscarbruce.com


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