Find other options . Look, discreetly, for other means of taking care of your son, some of which may be seeking outside help, alternating caretaking with mother and mother-in-law...etc. There are always other ways of finding a reasonably good caretaker for your baby. For me, I have resorted to hiring a live-in babysitter who takes care of my children when I am working.

Talk to other people about your problem . There will be other people who face same problem you're facing. Sometimes, talking about it to another person will simply make it less significant and put things back into perspective. Especially when someone is someone you trust completely. Just remember to keep an open mind...

Consult other family members . Other people may have a tip or two up their sleeves on how they survived ordeal.

Swallow pill . Take it from me, it is not worth it to argue with your baby's daycaregivers. Ultimately, welfare of your baby is in their hands. You're on losing end if you piss them off. It is simply not worth it. Noone and I mean, NOONE will be able to UNDERSTAND or deal with problems FOR YOU. Pick your battles wisely, smile and bear with it. Sometimes, bearing with it, other parties (like your day caregivers) may start to see something in you and things will starting becoming better. I mean, who knows?

Even if previous tenant did return all keys they had deliberately given out, there could still be copies floating around out there. It is incredibly easy to make a copy of a key. If previous tenant left their entire set of keys at an auto mechanic's garage rather than just car keys, there is a chance that someone copied house key.

When moving into a new apartment, you should ask if lock has been re-keyed. You might feel better if you went and bought a new lock regardless of circumstances just to be sure you have no problems with it. If lock on front door isn't a double and doesn't have a dead bolt lock, it should definitely be replaced. It is worthwhile to install a good lock with at least a one-inch bolt and be put in using nonstrippable one-way screws.

If your landlord doesn't offer to replace the, you can purchase a good dead bolt for under $20.00. Home Depot offers simple step by step instructions on dead bolt installation. Or, if you don't feel confident installing lock yourself, you might call your local locksmith for a price quote on installation.