4) Be careful about place for your date. It should be convenient spot for both of you. It should not be very formal nor too informal. A cool location where you can talk, hear and understand each other.

5) Leave contact details of your date with a close friend. It should be done by both parties as it is to do with your safety and security. Disaster never comes in knocking, it simply barges in.

6) Remember to go dutch on expenses of first date so that no one has to bear financial obligation alone. You will have ample opportunity to show your chivalry if things work out favourably.

7) The word dating, years later, evokes nostalgia as each date brings you closer to someone with whom you would like to spend rest of your life.

So stop pondering over these guidelines. Get going!

Their whining, crying and pouting about their infidelity problems to us (the readers) act as if we are super heros. Super heros who can resolve their nightmares.

Infidelity...who cares?

Besides infidelity is part of norm of our society.

It's "The American Why!"

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