Date LyingWritten by Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
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Men often “lie” by coming on strong, calling a lot, sending flowers - trying to impress a woman. Then once woman is “hooked”, attention falls away. The giving wasn’t his normal way of being - he was giving to get. It is well known that many men know exactly what to say to a woman to melt her heart. A man at one of my 5-day intensive workshops, who was married but was addicted to being with other women, revealed how easy it was for him to hook women in, even when they knew he was married. “Women desperately want to be seen and understood. All I have to do is reflect back to woman things she wants to hear and I’ve got her. I can see her caring, her intelligence, her creativity, her joy of life, her beauty. I can see what she has to offer that has been squashed down. When I see these things in her, she falls in love with me.” Some of women in intensive were drawn to him, even knowing that he was sucking them in! The lie was not what he was saying to them about themselves – it was that he covertly implied that he would be available to continue to see, love, nurture and support them, when in reality he had no intention of continuing to do so. Date lying of many kinds is common for both men and women. Generally, neither men nor women want to “hurt” another person with truth of how they feel. Both men and woman can turn on charm at beginning and seem to be giving and caring, only to turn out to be using other for their own neediness. What is way out of being at other end of lies? Stay tuned into your own intuition. Speak your truth. Learn to give yourself approval and attention that you are trying to get from another, so that you are not so vulnerable to others’ approval. And, don’t take it personally when someone does lie to you. Their lie is more about them than it is about you.
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?" and “Healing Your Aloneness.” She is the co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now! Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com or email her at mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com. Phone Sessions Available.
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4. Don't wish for specifics. You are supposed to have a faith in universe, that it knows what's best for you. If you ask for something and don't get it, then idea is that universe or powers that be have something better in mind for you. When praying, meditating, wishing, or saying an affirmation for something you want, you are supposed to ask for generalities as in "I am healthy, wealthy, happy and wise." as opposed to "I am owner of a shiny, new sports car." 5. Believe that money reflects presence, not absence of spirituality in your life. If this is true, than Donald Trump must be a very holy, holy man. Ultimately, secret to creating prosperity is not mind over matter; it's spirit over matter. A happy, gentle, and loving spirit creates a happy, gentle and loving life. Following principle of "like attracts like" or "anxiety only attracts more anxiety". According to Shakti Gawain, most important thing you can do is make a contract with yourself, about what you are prepared to receive abundance for in life. Thus phrase "Do what you love and money will come..."
Sam Steven's metaphysical articles have been published in many high-standing newspapers and she has published several books. You can meet Sam Stevens at http://www.psychicrealm.com where she works as a professional psychic. You can also read more of her articles at http://www.newagenotebook.com where she is the staff writer. Currently she is studying technology's impact on the metaphysics.
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