5. Read your new paradigm out loud when you awake and before going to sleep each day. Teach your subconscious that this is your paradigm.

Looking ahead:

1. What are your personal values? What is most import to you in your life? What drives you?

2. What roles do you play in your life? (List 8 or more). Then list new ones you want to incorporate into your life in next year. Rate each role on a scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being most important.

3. Where is your life out of balance? If you could put one problem behind you, once and for all, what would it be?

4. Which role is your major focus for next year? ( In what role do you want a breakthrough performance? If you could put a check mark by one of these roles at end of next year showing, showing that you felt good about how you are playing that role, which one would it be?)

5. What are your goals for each role?

The way that this works is that for at least a week or two you ask yourself above questions. I write them down and do it in writing several different times. Then after doing that for all of above questions you answer one final question:

What do I want to accomplish and who do I want to be in coming year?

Remember old saying, "If you fail to plan, you plan to fail." Give yourself gift of self reflection that will help you to create life you really want this year. It only takes an hour or two. Don't you deserve better than settling for whatever shows up when fail to plan?...of course you do.

If you need extra support with this contact me at support@angryenough.com or check out Champion Coaching™ at http://www.AngryEnoughToChange.com/championsales.html. Let me know if I can be of help in any way.

But, barring any decision to be a matador, every decision you've ever made out of fear was a minor accomplishment. Let that sink in. Think about it; when was last time you had a choice to make between something big and something small and you chose easy, small, route?

Easy As Pie!

You shied away from "big" hard looking difficult task because easy task looked like a piece of cake; a cinch. And what you were really doing was just looking for an easy quick victory. Let's face it, we've all done it because a victory always feels good and nobody is going to call us "dummy".

But raw hard facts are; unless we take on big challenge, we'll never really know if it would have been a victory too. In my own experience, I learned that big buildings were where most of discretionary money was and I never did find a big black bull in there. :>).

But, unless I had neutralized fear of "big" that was controlling me, I never would have found out that great successes and victories can come from doing what I was afraid to do, and going where I was afraid to go.

I Saw The Light!

So, what was it that neutralized fear? It was know-how! I didn't say "knowledge." There is a huge difference between knowledge and know-how. The difference is difference between success and failure.

You can have a head full of knowledge but with no know-how you will still fail. The word "know-how" does not just mean knowing how to do something. That's knowledge. Know-how means doing that "something," and, doing it right with skill and effectiveness.

When you have acquired know-how you will do that "something" right again and again. It will become a habit, and you'll do it naturally with ease and grace. There will not be any struggle; struggle is over. That's in past. You only gain know-how by "doing." The experience must be your very own.

You Don't Need To Know All The Answers!

To solve your problem or reach your goal, don't let fear of not knowing all answers in advance stop you. You will never know all answers until you start.

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