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I started to race for
highway as I was seriously late. I was THE speaker at
meeting, but my eyes were still swollen and teary. I reached over to grab a tissue from my purse. No purse. Oh boy. For
first time in my life, I started to think about
expression, "driving without a license." What exactly does that mean, anyway? You don't have a license at all, or you have one, but not on you? Hmm.
No purse also means no money, no plastic, no checks, no breakfast, no coffee. Amazingly, I arrived at
restaurant only ten minutes late, but frazzled beyond belief. I was still thinking about Bark, wondering if she was okay. My hair looked like I had stuck my finger in a light socket. My eyes were practically swollen shut, and, as I got out of my car, I slipped on black ice, thus tearing a hole in my panty hose and bleeding from one knee. As I picked myself up I saw that in my haste, I had put on one black shoe and one blue shoe. At this point, I was pretty sure I should have stayed in bed.
I entered
restaurant, and as I took my seat, I saw
waitress approach with a pot of coffee. Knowing that I had no money on me, I covered
coffee cup with my hand as a signal not to fill
cup. My timing was off, however, and she proceeded to pour
scalding coffee on my hand.
I had only been up for two hours and already a whole multitude of disasters had befallen me. Instead of my prepared speech on networking, I decided to stand up and tell my story to
group. As I looked out on
faces, I realized how grateful I was that these people were part of my network. I knew each one of them. We had all done business together. We had exchanged leads. We had become friends. I didn't have to explain to them that I'm usually much better put together. They knew that. Instead of frowning upon my shortcomings that morning, each person fought over who would buy my breakfast AND we had a good laugh.
It was a fairly new group, started just about a month before. As I stood before them, I realized we had reached a turning point. What had, only a short time before, been a roomful of strangers, had become a team, a network of people who genuinely cared about one another. We had helped each others businesses grow. We were working hard at bringing in referrals for one another. Everyone there that morning was pulling together to help me in my hour of need, and that is truly
essence of networking. You see, networking is not only a contact sport; it is a team sport. Instead of taking care of just yourself, take care of
people on your team. They, in turn, will take care of you. Even on a bad hair day.

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