Creating Icebergs Out Of Hostility

Written by Peter Murphy


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To perform well whenrepparttar crowd is openly hostile it is critical to be able to maintain your composure. You will need to be cool under pressure despiterepparttar 101928 negativity that you see and hear in front of you. If you need a magic wand then anchoring isrepparttar 101929 answer.

Anchoring isrepparttar 101930 single most effective way of taking charge of your emotional state. With an anchor you can change how you feel in an instant, I devote an entire chapter to it in my e-book because it is such an important skill to master.

Consider for a moment - *if you could feel any way you wanted to, how would you like to feel inrepparttar 101931 face of hostility*

Write downrepparttar 101932 various answers that come to mind. Maybe you would like to feel confident, powerful, energetic, or even courageous.

Now, refer to my chapter on anchoring if you need a reminder, then set up an anchor for those resourceful feelings that you will need inrepparttar 101933 heat ofrepparttar 101934 moment whenrepparttar 101935 pressure is on.

Then later on when you are speaking, whenever you need to, you can fire your anchor and instantly go from feeling overwhelmed to feeling confident and strong.

Byrepparttar 101936 way, if you have never used anchoring you are in for a mind blowing experience.

3 Disaster Planning

The final stage is to run through worst case scenarios for your upcoming presentation. Think about what could go wrong, what might go wrong, and even, what is unlikely to happen that would be catastrophic if it did happen.

Then work out a plan to deal as best you can with each scenario. Until you have completed this stage you are not ready to facerepparttar 101937 crowd.

Byrepparttar 101938 way, you arerepparttar 101939 best person to devise your strategy because your approach must fit with your personality and presentation style. Make sure you feel happy with your plan before you decide to implement it, otherwise onrepparttar 101940 big day you could well end up getting stuck. Not knowing what to do, you could just end up feeling confused.

The presentation itself isrepparttar 101941 tip ofrepparttar 101942 iceberg - be sure you sculpt a fine iceberg that will not melt underrepparttar 101943 spotlight.



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How To Be Handsomely Rewarded in These Times of Astounding and Radical Change

Written by Noel Peebles


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jet aircraft, lasers and cellular phones at our disposal. A phenomenon of modern society is thatrepparttar rules and boundaries keep changing. Could you look at a map ofrepparttar 101927 world today and name every country? Many geographical boundaries have changed or no longer exist. So too have social, political and emotional boundaries. Think about how attitudes andrepparttar 101928 world changed after 9/11. Like it or not,repparttar 101929 rules and boundaries are constantly changing. We do need rules, boundaries and structure in our lives. So new ones have been invented to replace those that no longer seem to serve our needs. It seems that as soon asrepparttar 101930 new rules take hold, theyíre superceded as newer ones come along to replace them. Even newer ones usually follow these and so it goes on. Every change seems to bring with it more turbulence and chaos than repparttar 101931 one before. We have fewer traditions to hang on to andrepparttar 101932 world thrives amidst constant turmoil. Prepare yourself. Thatísrepparttar 101933 message coming out of this volatile environment. We canít changerepparttar 101934 world, but we can changerepparttar 101935 way we do things andrepparttar 101936 way we react to things. If we are to succeed we absolutely must be open-minded to change and have a personal commitment to re-education. We must be prepared to become a champion of change rather than a victim of it. Try it, test it and get on with it!

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