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Doubtlessly, you feel that
Mr Richardson of Scenario One has quite a lot to learn.
Firstly, he has declined - to his peril - to give his full attention to
task at hand. Secondly, he is probably still under
subconscious influence of an educational system that expects
teacher or lecturer to pronounce, and expects
unfortunate students to listen or take notes. Now that he is in a management position, he has instinctively assumed
role of a teacher who knows just about everything, and expects others to passively imbibe his knowledge.
The vital four steps in effective communication might well help people like this Mr Richardson to correct this distorted view of
communication process. Some call them
four A's of communication. We can only discuss them very briefly here, although each of these four is worth an essay on its own.
ATTENTION
Winning
attention of
person with whom we wish to communicate, is an obvious first step. In order to achieve this goal, we must first try to eliminate - as far as is humanly possible - what experts in this field call "noise". This includes everything that distracts, be it noise in
literal sense, physical or emotional discomfort, personal problems, negative attitudes, or distracting mannerisms or dress.
Respect for
other person is an important prerequisite for attention getting. The human greeting, or inquiry about
other person's health or personal circumstances, is an effective catalyst in this process. To be sure, if such introductions are false or stereotyped they might serve little purpose. Real empathy on
other hand, all
more so in downward communication from superior to subordinate, leads quickly to
second step in
process.
APPREHENSION
Although this word usually carries
connotation of "fear", its primary meaning is "understanding". We have preferred
term "apprehension" here primarily to retain
mnemonic of "four A's" Its two meanings, however, are related; they are two sides of one coin. The task of
communicator is to change
aspect of "fear" into that of "understanding".
Achieving apprehension is a critical part of
communication process, but it is a very subtle one also. Managers sometimes defend their inability to communicate by asking, "Do you understand?" This is usually an unfair question, and even
somewhat improved "What do you understand?" is often perceived as a threat.
On
other hand, if there is
right relationship between
transmitter and
receiver of a message, indirect ways of establishing
degree of understanding will present themselves. As Version Two above illustrates, encouraging a free flow of input from
receiver is
best way of ensuring that understanding has been achieved.
ASSIMILATION
As crucial as is
function of apprehension (in its positive sense as we defined it,) it is not enough. Often, a person has understood a message perfectly, but he or she has not accepted it. Alternatively, it is accepted in a half-hearted manner, without any conviction. Communication is still incomplete if he has not assimilated
information into his own being.
The initiator has achieved an ideal result if
recipient has assimilated
message to
extent that he becomes one with
sender, as it were. Assimilation of a concept presented by management, or by another worker, goes a long way towards ensuring active participation, and harmonious cooperation, in
workplace.
ACTION
This is
final step in our communication process. It is that ingredient which propels abstract or theoretical knowledge into
world of reality. So often a good idea in business (no less than in other spheres) meets with facile acceptance or agreement, but is not translated into action.
If assimilation has indeed taken place, action on
part of
receiver should follow inevitably. But what we have said about
two-sided nature of communication applies here as well. The originator of
message must play his part, too, with abundant support and encouragement.

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