Clarifying Who You Are Seeking

Written by Rinatta Paries

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4. Pick outrepparttar most meaningful, attractive qualities you wrote down in #2 and use them to write a description of yourself. This will berepparttar 102057 first part of your classified ad or listing. The length ofrepparttar 102058 description will depend on where you are placingrepparttar 102059 ad.

5. Write a detailed description ofrepparttar 102060 type of relationship you want.

6. Would your ideal partner in #1 wantrepparttar 102061 same type of relationship? If not, start over. If yes, what would appeal to him/herrepparttar 102062 most? What words could you use to describerepparttar 102063 essence ofrepparttar 102064 relationship you envision?

7. Inrepparttar 102065 second section of your ad or listing, make an offer specifically targeted to your ideal partner. Incorporate items from #6 into your offer. For example, if you think clear communication would be appealing to your ideal partner, and it is something you both want and are able to give, your offer may sound something like, "In this relationship you can haverepparttar 102066 best communication of your life."

8. Finish your ad or listing with a request to contact you, in a way appropriate forrepparttar 102067 medium you are using.

---------------------------------------------------------------- Steps for clarifying who you are seeking for a relationship: ---------------------------------------------------------------- 1. Write downrepparttar 102068 qualities of your ideal partner. Be as specific as possible.

2. What type of person would your ideal partner be attracted to? Looking through your ideal partner's eyes, make your best guess and write it down. Don't automatically assume all ofrepparttar 102069 qualities will describe you. Be as specific as possible.

3. Doesrepparttar 102070 list in #2 describe you? If not, are you willing to grow and change so that it does? If not, go back and rewrite your description of your ideal partner and describe a person who will be attracted torepparttar 102071 qualities you have.

4. Write a detailed description ofrepparttar 102072 type of relationship you want.

5. Would your ideal partner in #1 wantrepparttar 102073 same type of relationship? If not, start over. If yes, then you now have an effective description of who you are seeking for a relationship.

6. Do not engage, date, or be intimate with people who do not fit your ideal description.

The above steps are an effective way to actively attract your ideal mate. Follow these steps to get very clear about what you want in a mate and in a relationship. You will also get clear on what you need to be willing to give. This isrepparttar 102074 kind of vital information that you need in order to attract your ideal partner.

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Written by Craig Lock

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So work on your SELF-IMAGE. Believe in your uniqueness and ability to make your own special contribution torepparttar world - no matter how small, or how dull, or unintelligent you think you may be. Everybody has some unique talent and there is no other like you in this world. There is a seed of greatness in each one of us - a precious resource to achieve something unique in our lives.


How much money you want to earn next year?

Write, "Byrepparttar 102056 end ofrepparttar 102057 year I will have X dollars/pounds inrepparttar 102058 bank" OR "I will have doubled my assets each year for five years (constant growth)" OR "By X (month and year) I will be a millionaire."

I've done this and shared it with my family. (Anyone else would think I'm totally "off my rocker"... if they don't already!)


These arerepparttar 102059 landmarks needed to help motivate you and keep you on track. Write down your short-term goals, too. Fewer than one in one hundred people do, but surveys at Harvard University inrepparttar 102060 United States show that those one percent arerepparttar 102061 super- achievers. It's your PLAN and no-one else's.

If you dream of being rich, quantify your dream into figures and specific dates. That isrepparttar 102062 first step to achieving wealth.

To become a millionaire on $20,000 a year and a 10 percent increase per year, you will need to do sideline activities (plenty, mate!) so you can save and invest some of your money.

REPEAT TO YOURSELF, "I will increase my income by $X this year."

That's a positive affirmation. So is: "I CAN do it, I WILL do it."

If you believe it strongly enough and desire it sufficiently, your mind will dorepparttar 102063 rest. It will show you HOW to achieve it by leading you torepparttar 102064 right path. Be inwardly convinced that you will succeed and you will. Believerepparttar 102065 solution exists to any problem. If there is no obvious solution,repparttar 102066 mind will find a way aroundrepparttar 102067 obstacle, or otherwise set you on a new track. The human mind has amazing, incredible POWER. NEVER EVER DOUBT IT!

The secret to success is a quantified goal and a deadline for achieving it. You will perhaps need some kind of change in your life to achieve your goals. Once set, your unconscious mind will work outrepparttar 102068 means to reach your goal.


Don't be paralyzed by fear, which prevents many people from living their dreams. Don't hesitate to takerepparttar 102069 steps necessary to achieverepparttar 102070 goal.

Don't underestimate your self worth. You are special and unique... and LIFE GIVES US EXACTLY WHAT WE EXPECT FROM IT: No more and no less!


.....and conquer your fears. Don't fear losing money.

Read Napoleon Hill's classic book, THINK AND GROW RICH.


A few thoughts to conclude...

MOST PEOPLE WANT TO BE HAPPY, BUT DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR. It isrepparttar 102071 same with money - not quantifying what you are looking for. Sadly, so many good people die without findingrepparttar 102072 'key'. They don't know how much they want to earn in a year. "When you don't know where you're going, you generally go nowhere." Take time out from your busy daily schedule. Time to meditate, to THINK THINGS THROUGH carefully.

BELIEVE that you can achieve your goals and crave it passionately. Use your IMAGINATION. Think and act successfully. * BELIEF isrepparttar 102073 key "seed" and this will develop and grow stronger daily..

* Have FAITH (great) that you WILL achieve your goal.

N.B: DEVELOP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE to get you throughrepparttar 102074 rough times Developrepparttar 102075 right ATTITUDE and LOOK FOR OPPORTUNITIES everywhere. They are right there within reach.


Haverepparttar 102076 COURAGE to do what you want to do. Don't give up on your dreams. Be bold and positive. Act "as if" you are already successful.

YOUR DESIRES IN LIFE: Write them down - everything you want out of life.

CONCENTRATE and FOCUS - it strengthensrepparttar 102077 mind. Choosingrepparttar 102078 RIGHT DIRECTION , your niche isrepparttar 102079 key first step in that it sets your course. Together with PERSISTANCE - every day "keeping on keeping on doingrepparttar 102080 little things to move you forward". Taking little steps one by one. These arerepparttar 102081 secrets of success, I believe. The pursuit of money should not be an obsession preventing you from enjoying life. "What shall it profit a man, if he shall gainrepparttar 102082 whole world and lose his soul?"

Enjoyrepparttar 102083 challenge, because inrepparttar 102084 great scheme of things that is life, how important is money anyway?

and always, remember...

If you lose happiness, you lose everything.

The greatest possession,repparttar 102085 greatest treasure in life is freedom... and wealth can give you that freedom. "Discover who is it you really are; becauserepparttar 102086 truth will set you free forever."

I hope this article encourages you to find whatever you are looking for in life... and always remember, money isn't everything. I believe peace of mind and JOY is much more important.

To your success (financial or any other endeavour in life)

Craig Lock

Believe in yourself and in your dream, Though impossible things may seem Someday, somehow you'll get through Torepparttar 102087 goal you have in view. Mountains fall and seas divide, Beforerepparttar 102088 one who in his stride Takes a hard road by day Sweeping obstacles away Believe in yourself and in your plan Say not -I cannot -I can The prizes of life we fail to win Because we doubtrepparttar 102089 power within...


**** (Not that he's anywhere near there... YET! But at least he understandsrepparttar 102090 theory and has a great deal of hope. We'll see what happens to him and whetherrepparttar 102091 principles DO work!)

For valuable money information to help you make and save your hard-earned money Get out of debt **

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