"Chemistry"do we need it to FALL in Love?

Written by Jill Rhodes-Harvey

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The chemical that results from this attraction (and intensifies it) is phenylethylamine - or PEA. It is a naturally occurring substance inrepparttar brain,and within a matter of seconds it kicks in to action on first meeting,providing afterrepparttar 124181 initial photo blue print of that person meets and matches all our conscious and sub-conscious requirements..

Essentially, it is a natural amphetamine. It stimulates us and increases both physical and emotional energy. The attraction causes us to produce more PEA, which results in those dizzying feelings associated with romantic love. Another substance that is released by PEA is dopamine. This chemical increases a desire to be physically close and intimately connected.

When these chemicals are being secreted in larger doses, they send signals fromrepparttar 124182 brain torepparttar 124183 other organs ofrepparttar 124184 body. If you wonder why you or someone is attracted torepparttar 124185 "wrong" person, it may be because you are high onrepparttar 124186 physical response to these substances, which overwhelm your ability to use your head and exercise "good judgment and common sense".

"Spiritual affinity" develops over time with repeated contact. When these feelings begin to emerge,repparttar 124187 brain produces endorphins. These are more like morphine and result in an increased sense of calm that reduces anxiety and helps to build attachment. Generally speaking, all "soul mate relationships" require at least some measure of each of these. The important thing to remember is that they come in stages, which is not to say thatrepparttar 124188 physical attraction passes as one moves into a deeper connection. However, it changes. We cannot sustain those intense emotions as we travel downrepparttar 124189 road to commitment and a shared life. Although, in healthy relationships those moments of intensity can and do occur for brief intervals at intermittent times. Remember not to confuse great sex or deep friendship with romantic love. Instead, look for a measure of both of these in your feelings for another. For then you haverepparttar 124190 ingredients that lasting love is made from.

Reasons why we want to fall in love...

Because that experience makes us feel completely alive, where every sense is heightened, and every emotion is magnified. Our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying intorepparttar 124191 heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour, or an afternoon, but that doesn't diminish its value, because we are left with memories that we treasure forrepparttar 124192 rest of our lives..

Good Luck!

Jill Rhodes-Harvey

Jill Rhodes-Harvey voluntary relationship counsellor now running her own introduction agency in oxfordshire. Should you like any advice or a listening ear please contact me at rhodesharvey@yahoo.co.uk

"The Newbie's Mind Set To Making It Online"

Written by Karl Augustine

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Thee are many challenges forrepparttar newbie andrepparttar 124180 mind set needed to make it online is one unlike any other.

The newbie's mind set should be built around these concepts:

* Understand that this will take time, no matter what type of success stories they read online

* Believe in themselves and startrepparttar 124181 journey withrepparttar 124182 assumption that they will see it through torepparttar 124183 end

* Understand that this isrepparttar 124184 only business that someone can make deep profits even if they have no education and have little money

* Define a clear path from "idea to sale" and realize that flexibility in that path will be key

* Always look at mistakes positively...mistakes must be viewed as learning experiences or tools in their toolbox of success

* Understand that they must be "results driven" enough to utilize other successful people's examples and experiences

* Never give up

* Remember why they started their business inrepparttar 124185 first place when things get tough

* Reflect on how they have personally grown as they get further along

* Crave and dissect lots of information

* Be sensible and realize that things are not what they seem

* Be prudent with all expenditures

* Realize that there will be many time when they have to make a hard decision and that those times demand a well thought out cost benefit analysis of each possibility

* Give to get

* Be humble and work smart

* Realize we're all in this together, there are people who will help

* But most of all,repparttar 124186 newbie's mindset must be optimistic and perseverant. Without optimism and perseverance,repparttar 124187 tough times seems tougher andrepparttar 124188 journey seems longer.

Newbie's should focus onrepparttar 124189 end result as well asrepparttar 124190 path to that end result.

Author, "9 Deadly Mistakes To Avoid When Starting An Online Business" Publisher, "Starting Smart!" e-zine

Starting an online business


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