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What if we tuned out all this last minute urgency and just accepted that we're going to be hitting stores, along with all other normal people, on December 23rd and 24th? The holidays aren't a race: no one gets an extra toy or more chocolate in their stocking because they had their shopping or baking or decorating done early. And even if we do get things done ahead of time, we'll find another holiday task (or ten) to fill up our newly discovered "spare" time.
What if we turned getting ready for holidays into part of holidays? What if we stopped trying to finish everything earlier, better, and faster than everyone else, and enjoyed preparations? After all, That Day will still come, whether you've baked ten kinds of cookies, or one, or bought some from a bakery. It will still come, whether there are 1500 lights on your house, or a wreath on door. It will still come, whether you've got your shopping done by July 23rd, November 23rd, or December 23rd. And it will be just fine, no matter what.
And even if it doesn't turn out to be perfect, guess what? You get another crack at it next year.
So relax a bit. Spend time with friends and family. Give thanks for bounty around you.
And have a wonderful holiday season.
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Copyright 2004 Lynn Cutts
Lynn Cutts, the Muse of Manage Your Muse, is a life coach, writer, and general chocolate lover. To learn more about Lynn and her coaching, please visit her site at http://www.ManageYourMuse.com.