You finally got rid of it, didn't you? Good.

Now, go back to living in moment. You are at contest. You don't remember any of that old stuff, because each time an old, unsupporting thought comes up, you let it go.

Once it's gone, concentrate on your pulse. Be very quiet until all you can hear is your pulse beat.

At this very moment, isn't your life in it's perfect place?

Isn't your health perfect?

Isn't your financial situation perfect?

Aren't your friends perfect friends for you?

Relax and enjoy this time, and let your old negative thoughts disappear. Feel peace and enjoy contest.

Now, I ask you, why would you want to spend your time letting old thought patterns come up, when it feels so much better imagining a perfect life? Why not spend your time attracting that perfect life, instead of reliving your *old* life? Because if you are reliving parts of your old life that you didn't, and don't, like, you are attracting very things you don't want.

~~~~~~~~~ Thanks for reading. Jan

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Many who have passed over to spiritual or nonphysical side are in a better place, for they chose to uplift humanity prior to their incarnation into this life. And you made a soul agreement with them to carry torch of their light, their love, their tremendous sacrifice, so no other shall have to undergo pains they endured to ensure that lasting change would take place among masses. That is why I say: Look for gift in tragedy. The seed is there. The seed for life renewal, for justice, for truth.

You will transform this tragedy so it never happens again. And that is answer to “why.”

Whether it be a new law, a non-profit foundation, a support group, a book, or a cure for a disease, Your purpose will emerge as a result of this tragedy.

Give yourself permission to grieve. Death is a part of life, but death is not end. There is a new beginning.

You will find this new beginning. It may take several years before you find inner strength to go forward. That is okay. Be gentle with yourself. The one you love is as alive on non-physical side right now, as you are today.

I want to assure you that deep pain you bear within will lessen over time. You will adjust. You will be okay, and you will also keep memory of your loved one alive for eternity.

This article is an abstract from chapter seven of Individual Power - Reclaiming Your Core, Your Truth, and Your Life. By Barbara Rose http://www.borntoinspire.com

In her nationally praised seminars and workshops, Author, public speaker and columnist Barbara Rose shares the secrets of turning tragedy into triumph. Her books; Individual Power: Reclaiming Your Core, Your Truth, and Your Life; and If God Was Like Man (Publication Date April, 2003) share profound, inspiring insight.Please visit her website: http://www.borntoinspire.com