3. Don't Wait to Talk About It.

The longer you put off talking about stress in a relationship, more stressful relationship becomes. The more you think about small slight or hurt, you more you remember - or invent - big ones. And then, when that molehill becomes an erupting mountain, other person has no idea where it's coming from! As soon as you realize something is 'off', talk about it.

4. Put Yourself in Their Shoes.

Imagine how you would feel and react to situation. This isn't always easy to do, but it puts you in a place where conversation becomes possible.

5. Start Conversations with 'I'.

Tell other person 'When you do x, I feel..' Let them know why something affects you. Also, starting with a 'You' statement generally feels like (and often is) an attack. Those conversations usually escalate before they an get better.

6. When someone asks what's wrong, don't say 'Nothing'.

This is something a lot of us women do. I don't know why we do, but we do. If you are lucky enough to have someone who asks what's wrong, then tell them! They obviously care enough to want to remove stress, so work with them on this one!

Show up at your lover’s door wearing sexy lingerie or nothing under your coat and sing them Xmas carols.

Make a homemade Xmas card and insert a naked photo of yourself.

Hang mistletoe everywhere throughout your house and kiss your lover under every one of them or strategically place mistletoe on your body for your lover to kiss each area.

Making love under Xmas tree with all lights off except tree lights can be very romantic and fun.

Create a naughty Xmas land by decorating your bed and bedroom with lights, tinsel, and icicles.

Trim your tree naked or wearing your hot Santa boxers or sexy little Elf costume.

String some popcorn and wrap it around your body for your lover to have a little snack.

Put some holiday lights or candles in bathroom, turn on your favorite holiday tunes and take a long sensual bath together.

Give your lover a homemade holiday coupon that entitles them to an evening of lovemaking of their choice.

Present your lover with their holiday gifts wearing nothing but your birthday suit or sexiest underwear you can find. Don’t forget your Santa hat!

Be sure to let your lover know how much you love them, how important they are to you and how much you appreciate them, either by whispering it sensuously in their ear, writing it lovingly in a poem, or enclosing it in their Xmas card.

Oh opportunities are about infinite. Use your imagination, be creative and have a fun and passionate holiday.