Sometimes, enrolling a child, especially a boy, in a self-defense class works wonders for their self-esteem. They are instructed from first day that they are not to use their newfound talent on another human being, however, inner strength and physical control they learn can do wonders for their shy and reserved natures. Other good avenues for a child in need of a boost are sport lessons, gymnastics or possibly acting or dance classes for a child who expresses a desire to learn arts. The better kids feel about themselves, less likely they are to become victims or bullies in life. A good heart to heart conversation, where child is heard and understood, can also work miracles in healing a wounded spirit.

A child who bullies other children needs to be stopped. They are in desperate need of instruction on caring for and nurturing others. Sometimes, a simple "How would YOU feel ...?" can jar a recessed nerve in their brain to awaken compassion and respect.

Naturally, these lessons are best learned at home but a child who is on his way to becoming a sociopath needs help wherever he can get it.

Approaching parents of a bully is probably one of most unrewarding encounters you might have. They most likely have taught their child to be a bully, albeit unconsciously through a variety of abusive behaviors. I think it is imperative that these parents be made aware of their child's antisocial problem, whether from school or another parent whose kid has become a victim of bully. In so doing, we might indirectly encourage some of these parents and caretakers to reevaluate their family values and environment.

PPD is classified as a mental illness. Only a non-professional would categorize it as a character flaw or weakness. PPD is real, at times to point of severe psychosis and should be treated as soon as new mother begins to feel any mental or emotional changes that could affect her ability to care for her newborn. Even though some women will refuse to believe PPD is happening to them, her family, friends and especially her husband must be alert to possibility of this condition. While you, I and most women we know might have breezed through first year after birth of our children with only occasional surges of panic or moments of near collapse, a significant percentage of women suffer more serious PPD. Only one percent succumb to actual psychosis leading to tragic harm or death of babies and sometimes themselves The greatest threat is denial of their symptoms.

Early identification and treatment of PPD are keys to successful therapy. If you or a new mother you know is suffering from even slightest feelings of depression, anxiety or inadequacy, seek immediate help. The birth doctor will be able to identify severity of symptoms and prescribe appropriate treatment.