Biting the hand that feeds you

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3. Rewardrepparttar negative behavior and thus reframerepparttar 129710 meaning ofrepparttar 129711 behavior. When you rewardrepparttar 129712 "bad" behavior,repparttar 129713 behavior is no longer bad. The parrot bites your right hand and you reward him by giving a snack with your left hand. The relationship is circular in nature. It doesn't take long beforerepparttar 129714 parrot loses his enthusiasm for biting you. He still very much wantsrepparttar 129715 snacks you feed him after each attack, but he would rather not have to do all ofrepparttar 129716 biting to getrepparttar 129717 goodies.

4. Blurrepparttar 129718 starting and stopping points, blurrepparttar 129719 difference between good and bad. The parrot has been biting one hand and you have been nuzzlingrepparttar 129720 parrot and feeding him with your other hand. Now takerepparttar 129721 hand that has been doingrepparttar 129722 nuzzling and feeding and present it torepparttar 129723 parrot for biting. Whenrepparttar 129724 parrot takes a playful nip, you nuzzle him withrepparttar 129725 hand he was previously gnawing on.

When you encouragerepparttar 129726 parrot to biterepparttar 129727 hand that feeds him! His confusion will be obvious.

5. Changerepparttar 129728 reason forrepparttar 129729 reward. Afterrepparttar 129730 "break in" period you only give a snack whenrepparttar 129731 parrot is gentle and playful. Little by little you thus changerepparttar 129732 reference behavior for gettingrepparttar 129733 snack. Usually at this stage, anyone that moves slowly can play withrepparttar 129734 parrot with little concern about getting bitten.

I have foundrepparttar 129735 above method, to be by farrepparttar 129736 fastest, easiest, and most humane way to tame a parrot, and calm down children that appear to have a violent streak.

Charlie Badenhop is the originator of Seishindo, an Aikido instructor, NLP trainer, and Ericksonian Hypnotherapist. Benefit from his thought-provoking ideas and a new self-help Practice every two weeks, by subscribing to his complimentary newsletter "Pure Heart, Simple Mind" at http://www.seishindo.org/anger/index.html .


A small piece of carpet

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Next, Frank would teachrepparttar dog to pick uprepparttar 129708 piece of carpet himself, and carry it to wherever they were going. The dog would then setrepparttar 129709 piece of carpet down when they stopped, and sit on top of it, with Frank all ofrepparttar 129710 time praising him for being a good dog. Now Frank said, "The dog begins to feel that he truly belongs in every place that he travels to, and no matter where he goes, he receives my love and appreciation. Soonrepparttar 129711 dog takes on this love and appreciation asrepparttar 129712 primary core of his identity."

And I ask you now, if this strategy works so brilliantly with dogs, wouldrepparttar 129713 same basic strategy not work just as well with human beings? Ask youself, "What isrepparttar 129714 small piece of carpet you carry around with you wherever you go?" "Would your life not be very different if you changed your piece of carpet to one of self love and appreciation?"

Charlie Badenhop is the originator of Seishindo, an Aikido instructor, NLP trainer, and Ericksonian Hypnotherapist. Benefit from his thought-provoking ideas and a new self-help Practice every two weeks, by subscribing to his complimentary newsletter "Pure Heart, Simple Mind" at http://www.seishindo.org/anger/index.html .


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