What really matters is how child perceives and interprets situation. How parents perceive situation is of little consequence even if parents feel that their intentions are best in world. By establishing an emotional bond parents can ensure that child gets correct message. This helps child in developing emotional maturity, attaining emotional self-dependence and imparts confidence in dealing with people.

The child may not visibly seek attention from parents all time. But whenever child approaches parents or other elders, child deserves to be given proper attention. If for any reason parents cannot immediately give time, this can be explained to child honestly. Remember to be truthful to your children - they can detect when people are not honest with them and then start feeling unwanted.

Here in this article I have narrated how I helped Shruti with her assignments. But whenever she approached me for anything, I always tried to give her my fullest attention. I believe this approach helps child to develop skill to reach out to people and get favorable response from them. This is an important element in development of interpersonal skill.

Early formative years decide a person's attitude later in life. Emotional growth of a child is as important as physical and mental growth. This is what forms basic character of a person. Parents need to ensure that child's own self-image is properly created by proper emotional inputs.

To sum up, most precious gift which can be given to child is sense of self-esteem, self-respect. This is a quality or attitude which prepares child to face world with confidence. To help children attain this quality role of parents can be vital. They need to demonstrate truthfully how much they care for child's feelings.

Sanjay Johari regularly contributes articles to several ezines, mostly on small business. He invites you to most trusted business opportunity, one of the best training programs and personal mentoring. Find out for your self:

For example, I wanted to last MUCH longer in bed. Up until that point, my definition of lasting long was about thirty minutes. But I knew I couldn't keep multiple girls around with this kind of sloppy performance. Other guys can go for thirty minutes and that doesn't constitute monopoly power.

So I began digging around and talking to self-proclaimed "sex gurus" and "tantric masters" to get some answers. I quickly found that people either knew what they were doing but couldn't explain it, or they had no formal system to transfer teachings to someone that wasn't experienced.

Over time I put it all together and learned to ride on edge of orgasm hours and, conversely, have multiple orgasms. I choose when to ejaculate and don't cum out of neediness but save my orgasm as her reward. In Legendary Lover I lay out procedures to penetrate her inner mind, dreams, and sexual fantasies to embed and turn yourself into her ideal lover - a critical skill, because every woman is different and you CANNOT stick to one single lovemaking method, no matter how good you may think it is.

Okay, back to story in lifeguard shack.

I can't go into all details of what I did that night. But, for example, I would control how long I lasted in order to maximize her pleasure. Lasting longer is achieved through a simple exercise I do in breath control and a little mind trick. As soon as I felt orgasm welling up inside me, I held it in check by placing my tongue on roof of my mouth and breathing deep and relaxed. As I breathed in, I pulled up on my testicles. As I exhaled, I let them go (you have to practice this a few times from before hand). I imagined that sexual energy I was generating in my genitals was being pulled up my spine, like a straw, by deep inhales, and into my head.

Anytime I would get anywhere near orgasm, more pleasure I felt, I was simply able to redirect warmth and sexual energy back into girl (I know it sounds weird, but women can feel it... and I guarantee that NO guy does this). That night I was able to last two hours with this woman until she was asking me to come all over her.

Of course, we paid price for lovemaking in a public place. We cuddled afterward and fell asleep together... to be very embarrassingly woken up next morning by a lifeguard dude at 6:00 AM in morning. Ouch!

No matter, my mission was complete. She told me numerously how she was blown away by my stamina and "abilities" as she called it. She kept calling me non-stop. It's strange really. You can really become a sexual god to these women, assuming you can monopolize what they really want in bed. It's like it becomes an addiction for them.

To this day, girl I laid at beach house still sees me and we have an open door relationship together, even though she knows what I do. It simply amazes me however as to numbers of men who have NO IDEA what they're doing. DON'T be left in dark. I created Legendary Lover to give my students a detailed road map to follow to sexually fulfill women - I think of it as "second chapter" of Seduction Science. Take a look.

By Derek Vitalio