The subconscious holds on to this pre-determined pattern for dear life. This is what it knows to be true of its Universe and it will fight to save it. This is reason why you can sometimes try as hard as you like, and still fail.

This is where subconscious conditioning comes into play.

Sometimes fear of overcoming fear is greater than original fear. It means we will have to go out and DO SOMETHING about our fears (and that can be really scary:-)

The feeling, however, that you experience once you've conquered that fear, is most amazingly exhilarating feeling around. To know that you looked that audience square in eyes and delivered best speech of your life, fills you with a tremendous sense of achievement and a solid foundation that says, 'I CAN do anything!'

Strive always to 'Feel Fear...And Do It Anyway! The exhilaration you will feel on overcoming a blockage that has plagued you for so long, will be well worth blood, sweat and tears of blasting through that barrier.

The Choleric (Worker) is:

Extroverted – Determined – Demanding – Domineering – Controlling – Practical - Self-reliant – Decisive – Independent – Confident - Goal-oriented - Risk-taker –Aggressive – Insensitive – Impatient

The Sanguine (Talker) is:

Extroverted – Enthusiastic – Emotional –Sociable – Impulsive – Articulate – Optimistic – Persuasive - Self-absorbed – Generous – Egotistical – Charming – Unorganized – Playful - Personable

The Phlegmatic (Watcher) is:

Introverted – Accommodating – Harmonious – Agreeable – Indecisive – Uninvolved – Sympathetic – Undermining –Patient – Supportive – Stable – Possessive – Passive – Selfish – Bashful - Tolerant

The Melancholy (Thinker) is:

Introverted – Analytical – Thoughtful – Organized – Critical – Shy – Detailed – Pessimistic – Sensitive – Diplomatic – Economical – Loyal – Introspective – Private – Conscientious – Moody

Unfortunately, most people do not appreciate value of temperament diversity in their relationships. Some people define a successful relationship as one where they have similar interests and much in common with their partner. Many make fundamental mistake of believing that similarity is key to compatibility.

The most common and natural attraction of opposites is between introvert and extrovert. Like attraction between Yin and Yang, introverts and extroverts recognize in one another qualities and traits they require for balance. The two most naturally balanced relationships are between Worker & Watcher styles or Talker & Thinker styles. Due to their aggressive and controlling nature, least compatible relationship is between two Workers. All relationship combinations can work if people understand temperament dynamics and are willing to make adjustments as required. Whether it is a nation, a company, or a personal relationship, strength and balance are found in our complementary differences, not in our similarities.