Beating Fear!

Written by Lisa van den Berg

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The subconscious holds on to this pre-determined pattern for dear life. This is what it knows to be true of its Universe and it will fight to save it. This isrepparttar reason why you can sometimes try as hard as you like, and still fail.

This is where subconscious conditioning comes into play.

Sometimesrepparttar 126277 fear of overcomingrepparttar 126278 fear is greater than repparttar 126279 original fear. It means we will have to go out and DO SOMETHING about our fears (and that can be really scary:-)

The feeling, however, that you experience once you've conquered that fear, isrepparttar 126280 most amazingly exhilarating feeling around. To know that you looked that audience square inrepparttar 126281 eyes and deliveredrepparttar 126282 best speech of your life, fills you with a tremendous sense of achievement and a solid foundation that says, 'I CAN do anything!'

Strive always to 'Feelrepparttar 126283 Fear...And Do It Anyway! The exhilaration you will feel on overcoming a blockage that has plagued you for so long, will be well worthrepparttar 126284 blood, sweat and tears of blasting through that barrier.

Lisa van den Berg is the author of ‘Alleviate Stress – 12 Simple and Easy Ways to Transform Your Life!’ Take the free online Stress Test at to see how much stress you’re under and why you need to do something about it right now!

Yin Yang Relationships - How to Find YOUR Perfect Partner

Written by John Boe

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The Choleric (Worker) is:

Extroverted – Determined – Demanding – Domineering – Controlling – Practical - Self-reliant – Decisive – Independent – Confident - Goal-oriented - Risk-taker –Aggressive – Insensitive – Impatient

The Sanguine (Talker) is:

Extroverted – Enthusiastic – Emotional –Sociable – Impulsive – Articulate – Optimistic – Persuasive - Self-absorbed – Generous – Egotistical – Charming – Unorganized – Playful - Personable

The Phlegmatic (Watcher) is:

Introverted – Accommodating – Harmonious – Agreeable – Indecisive – Uninvolved – Sympathetic – Undermining –Patient – Supportive – Stable – Possessive – Passive – Selfish – Bashful - Tolerant

The Melancholy (Thinker) is:

Introverted – Analytical – Thoughtful – Organized – Critical – Shy – Detailed – Pessimistic – Sensitive – Diplomatic – Economical – Loyal – Introspective – Private – Conscientious – Moody

Unfortunately, most people do not appreciaterepparttar value of temperament diversity in their relationships. Some people define a successful relationship as one where they have similar interests and much in common with their partner. Many makerepparttar 126276 fundamental mistake of believing that similarity isrepparttar 126277 key to compatibility.

The most common and natural attraction of opposites is betweenrepparttar 126278 introvert and extrovert. Likerepparttar 126279 attraction between Yin and Yang, introverts and extroverts recognize in one anotherrepparttar 126280 qualities and traits they require for balance. The two most naturally balanced relationships are betweenrepparttar 126281 Worker & Watcher styles orrepparttar 126282 Talker & Thinker styles. Due to their aggressive and controlling nature,repparttar 126283 least compatible relationship is between two Workers. All relationship combinations can work if people understandrepparttar 126284 temperament dynamics and are willing to make adjustments as required. Whether it is a nation, a company, or a personal relationship, strength and balance are found in our complementary differences, not in our similarities.

John Boe, based in Monterey, CA, is recognized as one of the nation’s top sales trainers and motivational speakers. He helps companies recruit, train, and motivate salespeople to achieve peak performance. John is a leading authority on body language and temperament styles. To view his online Video Demo or to have John Boe speak at your next event, visit or call (831) 375-3668.

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