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Try to steer
discussions in
direction that you want to go, by concentrating on improvements you have made and can continue to make with
appropriate training or job experience.
Listen.
Listen to, and take note of, your manager’s comments. Weigh up what he has to say even if you don’t agree with it. There may still be an element of truth in what he has to say, and you may learn something useful about how others see you. If you do disagree, however, it is important to say so. Don’t just accept his comments passively. Make it clear that you have a different opinion, but back up your response with cogent arguments of your own to support your case.
Stay Calm
At all times keep your cool. It is almost inevitable that you will bear
brunt of some criticism. You manager will feel almost obliged to search for something, however wonderfully you have performed during
preceding months. Don’t get angry. Keep calm. Fight your corner. Stay polite.
You will come across as someone who can take criticism, but is prepared to defend himself and his views. That can only do you good.
Profit from
experience
Use
appraisal process to your advantage. Remember points 1 and 2. Go into
meeting well prepared, so that after
initial looking back you can steer
meeting towards where you want to go when you start looking forward. Talk about your aims and goals. Show yourself to be a positive, forward looking person. Say what it is that you need to achieve both your own personal aims and
goals set for you by your manager. Ask for
training necessary. Ask for
job experience you want. Ask for more responsibility and promotion. You cannot fail to impress your manager with your enthusiasm.
Your appraisal should be a positive and beneficial experience for both you and your manager. It is a time when you can both reach a common understanding of
past and both explain what you are looking for in
future. It is a time when grievences can be aired and misunderstandings cleared up. It is a time when you can reset course and secure
resources needed. In short, it is something to look forward to rather than to dread.

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