So, start with question. What three qualities do you want to model for others? Once you've identified your three, write them down and post them prominently. Refer to them often. Go through your day seeking to express them each to their fullest. Pay attention to those activities that are most in harmony with those qualities. Notice when in past you've most been in alignment with them. Do you get to express them in your work? In your family? Who can you express them around? And who not? Start noticing when all three get expressed together. For example, thinking about my three (compassion, respect, wholeness), I understood why I am so passionate about coaching. It is such a natural opportunity for me to get to express these core attributes - and myself.

I hope you'll try this simple exercise. Of course, this is one of those 'simple, but not easy' things. Identifying three qualities is simple, but living them fully each day may be one of most challenging endeavors you ever undertake.

3. What I want for you is to be treasured by your spouse/significant other, children, parents, siblings and friends

4. What I want for you is to be respected and held in high esteem by your neighbors, coworkers and community.

5. What I want for you is to wake up each morning, joyous at prospect of day before you.

6. What I want for you is to live in an environment filled with beauty, grace and order.

7. What I want for you is to look forward to all of life's challenges with excitement because you recognize that this is how you stretch, grow and become 'the best' that you can be.

8. What I want for you is to know what's really important to you - your core values -- and to base all your decisions and actions around them.

9. What I want for you is to live life in integrity with who you are and to fully express all 'parts' of yourself.

10. What I want for you is to 'get' that if you can't do it, you can't dream it. If 'it' ever crosses your mind, then you have ability to create it.