Try sitting down and making a list of qualities that a best friend has. Then work on applying these qualities to yourself, for yourself.

Learn to hold your own hand and be most supportive person in your life. When you learn to be your best friend, then everything changes for better. You are not dependant on others for your self-esteem. You are not always looking outside of yourself for your own happiness and success. When you learn to respect yourself, you also learn that you deserve only best that life has to offer. Then, you go out and get it!

12.Read peaceful books, listen to peaceful music and play peaceful games.

13.Learn, for once and for all, that no one can disturb your peace unless you allow them to.

14.Forget trying to control others, it will never work.

15.Establish a dialogue with something greater than yourself. Talk to Creator and listen for reply.

16.Tell every single person that you care about how you feel.

17.Forgive any and every one who has ever hurt you.

18.Let go of expectations.

19.Stop and think before you talk. You will spend a lot less time having to eat your words. 20.Make today be best day possible, and future will take care of itself one day at a time.