Avoid This Tendency And You'll Press Beyond Your Limits!

Written by Richard Vegas


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But, if not, It seems that excuses arerepparttar first thing we start looking for to see if we can get out of it, or find a real easy way to solve it. If we don't think of a real easy way to solve it, we focus on excuses to get out of it.

You Need Excuses Like A Kangaroo Needs A Purse!

If you believe you have some limitation that is holding you back, then you are making excuses. The only real limitations we have are in our own mind. If we think aboutrepparttar 123486 limitations more than we think about how to solve it, then we have excuseitus.

Excuseitus can have a far reaching effect into areas of our lives that we know we can handle. But, it becomes so easy to "make excuses" that we will start making them allrepparttar 123487 time, because now, it seems so natural to do so.

You can look at limitations as a sort of a test; A test of your tenacity. Failrepparttar 123488 test, and you get to take it over again. :>(. And over and over. Every time you get a zero you get put back inrepparttar 123489 first grade.

Your Tower Of Strength!

And, guess what? Even ifrepparttar 123490 outcome is not what you wanted, you will feel so good that you pressed beyondrepparttar 123491 limit, that whenrepparttar 123492 next test comes, you're more confident, composed, determined, and relentless.

At that point,repparttar 123493 final outcome is notrepparttar 123494 real focus and goal. Then what is? Your faith and determination that you can press beyond any limits you have in your mind! When you get there, you'll start reaching forrepparttar 123495 stars, instead ofrepparttar 123496 ceiling.

Go ahead; shoot forrepparttar 123497 stars, what if you miss it half way? It's better than shooting forrepparttar 123498 ceiling and missing it half way. Somebody said; what if I fail? So what! Joinrepparttar 123499 club. The thing can't eat you! Besides, you never really have a failure; you have only discovered another way that it wouldn't work.

Will Wonders Never Cease!

And, besides, I have experienced situations where no matter what I did worked. But, then something else came along and I discovered I was happier withrepparttar 123500 last thing than I would have been withrepparttar 123501 first one. Go figure.

Limitations will shout "you can't"! But, how do you really know if all you do is sit down and have a discourse with your limitations. They will win every time. Don't ever "reason" with your excuses. If you do, you'll come up with more excuses; ones that you thought you would never think of.

Your Mission In Life!

If you don't focus on your limitations and make excuses, you can take what little resources you do have and, just by beginning, you'll find many times that your efforts are making giant strides. And, you'll find yourself pressing beyond those self-imposed limitations.

Richard Vegas © Richard Vegas is a popular recording artist and internet marketing professional. He invites you to subscribe to his FREE weekly ezine "Wing-Tips" Teaching The Success System That Never Fails, at: http://www.1-work-at-home-based-business-opportunities.com You may also hear some of Richard's free music at: http://www.richardvegas.com



Richard Vegas is a Popular Recording Artist and Internet Marketing Professional running his two full-time businesses from home. He specializes in teaching people how to discover their passion and make money from it on the internet. Richard publishes a Free weekly ezine, "Wing-Tips The Success System". He has recorded two albums and weekly keeps in touch by email with hundreds of fans and customers


The Dignity of Labor

Written by Susan Dunn, MA


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When my "important" work has been interrupted, and I feel impatient, I think back onrepparttar Archbishop's story.

It keeps me from yanking and pulling on my protesting granddaughter when I put her sweater on her. I can pause while I do this necessary work and look atrepparttar 123485 sheer beauty ofrepparttar 123486 polished skin on her arm, andrepparttar 123487 freckles scattered on that precious and protesting nose. I can do my work with a loving hand.

If I'm putting onrepparttar 123488 sweater to protect her fromrepparttar 123489 cold, because I love her, I can let her know this inrepparttar 123490 way that I do it.

I want to acknowledge each of you forrepparttar 123491 work that you do. May it bless and bring dignity to you.

For allrepparttar 123492 times you dotted an "i", wiped a runny nose, sent a thank you card, listened to a trouble co-worker, took outrepparttar 123493 garbage on a rainy morning, picked your husband's underwear up offrepparttar 123494 floor forrepparttar 123495 100th time, crawled around on your hands and knees inrepparttar 123496 dark looking for a lost "wubbie," calmed an angry client before they went into your boss' office, asked your friend, tenderly, if she'd considered that her son might be doing drugs,repparttar 123497 phone call you took after you couldn't take one more,repparttar 123498 time you really looked at someone's photo of their grandchild, fixed a flat for a woman you'll never see again, listened to an Ancient Aviator's WWII story, cleanedrepparttar 123499 toilet, changed a dirty diaper, worked a piece of plastic out ofrepparttar 123500 printer, unscrewed a mayonnaise jar for your grandmother, smiled when there was no reason to smile and no one else was smiling ... and allrepparttar 123501 other works of your life known only to you.

On this Labor Day acknowledge yourself for all those unnoticed labors of love you have done throughout your life.

And claimrepparttar 123502 dignity of your work. Pause for a moment and appreciate to yourselfrepparttar 123503 love you have put intorepparttar 123504 hardest, smallest, most tedious, demanding, most un-noticed and unacknowledged parts of your work, which is your life.

And finally, acknowledge yourself for allrepparttar 123505 times you went for help and found your personal power by beingrepparttar 123506 helper and making your contribution torepparttar 123507 circle of life –repparttar 123508 times you coached your coach, shrank your therapist, placed your placement counselor, cured your doctor, healedrepparttar 123509 healer, organized your boss, supported your support staff, led your leader, followed your followers, held your accountant accountable, taught your teacher, ministered to your minister, mothered your mother, fathered your father, and allowed yourself to be child to your children.

Happy Labor Day!

©Susan Dunn, MA Clinical Psychology, http://www.susandunn.cc . Susan Dunn is your EQ Coach, here to assist, inspire, support and transform your experience of yourself, your life, your relationship, your career, your health and your world through the magic of emotional intelligence competencies (EQ). The EQ Learning Lab™ is now available. Mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc for FREE ezine.


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