TACTILE CONTROL - As you are playing chord, try to feel it muscularly. Play each note of chord, one note at a time, so that you use muscles of hand. You will develop a muscular memory for chords.

AURAL CONTROL - Listen to chord. You'll want to know its sound so you can instantly recognize and use it later on ... "by ear"!

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