Another solution is hiring an independent in-home care giver yourself. This person will take care of your loved one while you are away. You may be able to obtain names and information about experienced caregivers from places such as your church, Alzheimer’s Association, Area Agency on Aging.

Make sure you check references. Meet and talk with prospective caregiver and see how person interacts with your loved one. Touching is very important. It could be a pat on back or gently rubbing hand. You can even ask your loved one for input about person. People with dementia are often perceptive and intuitive.

And don’t forget! You have family members as well that can help you. A loved one who has Alzheimer’s affects all family members. So if family members offer to help, take advantage of it.

Remember, help is available. Do not feel guilty because you want to take a break. You deserve it.

In reorganizing your home to make it a safe environment you will have to focus on consistency. Keep furniture in same place; just move them apart a little bit. Help your loved one maintain a connection with past and familiar faces. Familiar objects such as framed photographs, or a piece of clothing that he likes, will make it easier on him. Use contrast. A person with Alzheimer’s may not be able to distinguish between an off-white door and a beige wall. Make sure you pay attention to flooring and keep it simple. Use flooring that cuts down on glare. If it is too shiny person with Alzheimer’s may think it is wet. You can use carpet to avoid slipping.

Maintaining a safe, secure environment is best for everybody. Not only will it make your loved one physically safe, but it will also give you peace of mind.