The lifestyle also IS NOT an arena for those who are single and looking for marriage or those who are married and cheating on their partners. YES, one may eventually find a soul mate or experience a swinging encounter as a cheater but, these instances are few and far between and can be very difficult to achieve.

I advise those who are looking for a long term traditional relationship to seek them through traditional methods.

Those who are married and trying to become active in swinging lifestyle excluding your spouse, please ask yourself why! Your actions in lifestyle will only cause problems in your marriage. Your spouse will eventually discover his/her exclusion of your actions. Seek professional help to discover what has gone astray in your marriage before even considering swinging as a lifestyle for you.

The most awesome benefit of lifestyle is within people who choose to live it. There are no set guidelines as to who one must be as a swinger. What one person or couple chooses to seek and accept, next may choose total opposite.

What is swinging lifestyle one may ask? The lifestyle is what you make of it. Simply decide where YOU fit into it.

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A 50 years old and controversial report indicate that men reach their peak of sex desire well before twenty, so that postponement of marriage places a strain upon those who observe accepted moral standards.

Yet emotional maturity and economic competence take time to develop. And if marriage is to represent a complete fulfillment of love relationship, emotionally as well as physically, couple should wait for marriage until they are fully ready.

For most couples best age for marriage seems to be from early to middle twenties. Remember, however, that you are not a statistic, or even two statistics. You are you. The question is not, "what is good age to marry?" but "What is best age for YOU to marry?".

The best way to decide is to look at what marriage success involves, and then try to see whether or not you have what it takes. The information found in christian-dating-guide.com may help you to decide.