There are many methods by which this can be easily done. I will discuss one method here. 1)Put posters on walls of your bedroom, with affirmative statements. This poster(s) should be clearly visible to you. You can also use same poster in you office or place your work. The bottom line is your mind must be kept alarmed about a new command more often until it starts believing it to be true. If you can convince your mind to obey new affirmation then you are done. If used positively autosuggestions can be an excellent way to take charge of our lives to in any unhappy situation. Remember that never use negative statements. Because your mind will believe it to be true and recreate reality which is negative for you. There are two major point you should remember while framing your affirmations or autosuggestions. 1)Always use "I" in your statement 2)Keep statement in present tense.

Let's see an example. If I want to change my money beliefs I can use a statement "I OPEN MYSELF TO RECEIVE ALL THE RICHES I DESEREV" OR "I AM WELATHY AND PROSPEROUS". Both these are statements are direct and in present tense. Instead of saying "I WILL" be prosperous someday, this statement forces mind to believe that "I AM" already in position to receive riches I deserve, thus eliminating chances of believing that solution will be sometime in future. Your mind will start absorbing this new "command" moment you begin.

Thus autosuggestions can be used to change any unhappy situation in our life such as personal relationships, finances, health, bad habits etc.

- You no longer feel in control of your destiny and in fact you are a victim of circumstance

- You earn far less than people of lesser intelligence and ability

- You worry about future because you fear you may not be able to deal with things

Now is time to take charge of this situation. I can tell you from my own experience that nothing will change until you decide to change and nothing will improve until you improve it.

You owe it to yourself and to people who care about you to seize day and make your life something to be proud of.

The satisfaction that comes from living life on your own terms is a wonderful gift you deserve to enjoy. And you will only have this once you know how to motivate yourself to create life you dream of.

My income jumped, my social life improved dramatically and new opportunities for having even more of what I wanted all came about for me only after I learned secrets of self- motivation.

The world did not change. Other people did not change. I changed. Only When YOU change will your world change for better.

Before I go...

Think of those people who look down on your lack of progress and take you for granted, think of that sense you have of not been in control.

All of these feelings of dissatisfaction are not going to disappear-- in fact they will dominate your life as years pass you by.

These issues are not going to go away all by themselves.

I tried wait and see approach - it does not work!

You need to stop rot as a matter of urgency.