Both parents work. Children are sent to school for discipline not education where they learn how to Be. And we all wake up at 65 so tired we want to 'retire'. Why? I want to scream this next sentence. TO DO WHAT WE WANT!

Why don't we do what we want all along?

We are following a formula called Do, Have, and Be. This is formula I think we should be following. Be, Do, Have.

Be who you are. Define and consciously choose to be uniquely you. Discover your own gifts, quirks, needs, values, and meaning of success.

Do what you love. Figure it out. What did you love to do as a child? What did you dream about being when you grew up? What do you dream about now? * Have what you need. If you are true to yourself, and are passionate about what you do, things you need will be provided. This is hard part. When you give up control, and live on faith Universal Energy source is really there and will help there will be times when you wonder why you gave up security of JOB. Each of us in a way has been programmed to believe there is not enough to go around, and that we must fight for our portion. This is a fallacy.

You do not have to fight. In my opinion we were not born to fight all our lives. We were put here for some other reason, but it was not to live our lives struggling to feed machine.

Your thoughts?

If this line of thinking appeals to you, and you want more, join one of small groups forming now. We will work on helping you define who you are, what you love to do, and how to get there if need be.

Your Coach and online friend, Miami

Miami Phillips Helping others find their path - and stay on it. www.creativemasterminds.com www.BeDoHaveU.com www.highcountrystables.com

Quotation of Week "Whatever your sex or position, life is a battle in which you are to show your pluck, and woe be to coward. Whether passed on a bed of sickness or a tented field, it is ever same fair play and admits no foolish distinction. Despair and postponement are cowardice and defeat. Men were born to succeed, not to fail."— Henry David Thoreau

So how do we change?

1. Find a group to help you. Get some new friends who think like you. Find someone you know who is already doing what you are doing.

2. Plan your change carefully. If you have a plan to follow, it is much simpler to keep to your path. Blindly stumbling around attempting to make changes allows your ego way too many chances to throw blocks in your road.

3. Use a calendar to track your progress, and to make your plan. Review and celebrate your accomplishments as you reach them. We tend not to look back at where we have been. You will need encouragement as you reward your Self. Review your calendar daily to remind you of your steps to come.

Make room in your schedule and do these crucial-to-your-future tasks first!.

Here is last thing to remember about change. It is sometimes better to change gradually than all at once. If you hold a vision of what you want changes to look like, set a plan to get there, and take action on a regular basis, one day you will realize you are living your vision.

Of course by then, you will have another, different, and better vision.

Your Coach and online friend,

Miami

Miami Phillips Helping others find their path - and stay on it. www.creativemasterminds.com

Quotation of Week "Only wisest and stupidest of men never change."— Confucius