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How to Evaluate Your Results
Generally speaking, more ‘yes’ answers, greater likelihood that this man will cheat. But some answers carry more weight than others, so you’ll want to take a closer look at results.
If you answered yes to #1, #2, or #5 (but not all three), he’s a POTENTIAL CHEATER who may very well cheat on you if opportunity presents itself. If you decide to get involved with him, you need to make it difficult for him to cheat. Familiarize yourself with signs of infidelity, so you’ll know if he starts to stray.
If you answered yes to #3 or #4 alone, together, or in combination with #1 or #2, he’s a COMMON “GARDEN-VARIETY” CHEATER who will cheat if he feels he can do so without getting caught. Your challenge, if you insist on dating him, is to stay one step ahead of him by learning to recognize early warning signs. If you know how to spot signs of impending infidelity, you may be able to stop his cheating before it starts, or leave before he breaks your heart. Familiarize yourself with 21 major categories of telltale signs.
If you answered yes to #6 alone or in combination with #1,#2, #3, #4, or #5 you’re dealing with an EXPERIENCED CHEATER who knows how to hide obvious signs of infidelity. The most important thing to do if you’re dating this man is learn to spot subtle signs of infidelity, because these are signs that will inevitably give him away. Get a good infidelity reference guide, watch him like a hawk, and try not to get too deeply involved.
If you answered yes to #7 alone ( This one’s biggie!) or in combination with any others, you’ve got a HARD-CORE, HABITUAL CHEATER on your hands who’s probably already having an affair. (You could unknowingly be Other Woman.) For this man, cheating is a way of life. If you don’t want to become an infidelity statistic, leave this man alone. Should you decide to take on this challenge, you’re in serious trouble if you don’t know how to spot subtle signs of infidelity. Forget about watching for usual signs of cheating. This man is an expert at covering his tracks. The best thing you can do is become adept at spotting subtle signs of infidelity, since there won’t be any obvious signs to give him away. The subtle signs are ones he won’t even think to cover up. Get best infidelity reference book you can find to help you recognize these subtle signs. Invest in a copy of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs which lists practically every known sign of infidelity ( http://www.Is-He-Cheating-On-You.com ) and keep it handy at all times.
How to Deal With a Potential Cheater
If you’re already dating a potential cheater, or thinking about dating one, you need to know what to do. Even if you only had one yes answer on Potential Cheater’s Quiz, there’s still cause for concern. However, there are precautions you can take. My special report, “How to Handle a Potential Cheater, gives you several successful strategies to use. To receive your FREE copy of this special report which normally sells for $7, send an e-mail to: InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with words "Potential Cheater Report” in subject line.
© Ruth Houston 2005 All rights reserved.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the author of Is He Cheating on You?- 829 Telltale Signs, an infidelity reference book which documents practically every known sign of infidelity. Ruth’s website http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com provides practical advice on all aspects of infidelity. Ruth also does personal infidelity consultations. For details visit http://www.infidelityconsultations.com