Are You (or are you with) A "Commitment-Phobe"?Written by Toni Coleman
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Perhaps you need more time or emotional growth before you consider making a long-term commitment. If you'd like to deal with past relationship feelings, I have an article on this at http://www.consum-mate.com/02jul.htm. If you are unsure if you are relationship ready, check out my article on this at http://www.consum-mate.com/03jun.htm If lack of self-awareness is an issue, check out http://www.consum-mate.com/02aug.htm Greater self-knowledge will help you to overcome this block to building a lasting and satisfying relationship. The second issue is inability to make a commitment to a PARTICULAR relationship. This may not be right one. Perhaps there is a sense of this but it is written off to being a "commitment -phobe" in general. Focus on true level of involvement with each other. Is there a genuine connection? Or is there a vague feeling of something missing? Evaluate quality of your intimate relating. This does not mean how often (or even how good) sex is. This is about how open, sharing and real you are in your interactions with each other. Does any of this sound familiar? It seems like we are only killing time? He/she doesn't seem to want what I want. We seem to be off and on in our level of contact/affection. I hey are still not over a past relationship. I hey just don't seem to know what I hey want. Remember to focus on involvement or lack thereof between you. If either person is disengaged in any way, it's time to address real issue of; "Is this right relationship for us?" Exploring your ability to make a lasting commitment should be a first step in your plan for building a healthy and lasting relationship.
Toni Coleman is a relationship coach in McLean,Virginia. She specializes in working with singles that want to create lasting, intimate relationships. She has also written numerous email classes for singles on all aspects of meeting, dating and relating. She is the author of the email newsletter, The Art of Intimacy, which goes out to thousands of subscribers monthly
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there was i needed to know that was actually there, in one place, and spot on. I write this as a truly pleased person, in gratitude for dissembled knowledge of high quality, given unstintingly, and without any profit intended or taken. I have even given this website address to my ISP's technical support guys, it is so good, and so useful. Don't just take my word for it, go and read what is there, and walk away with a feeling of being in control of internet, instead of it being in total mastery of yourself! I have no axe to grind here, if you look at my website, it can only be loss making, certainly no record profits are going to be made here, but it is nice to try to get a few people dropping in, instead of a trickle. When I started I had 12 people per day, now, thanks to Herman Drost I have 142 per day and rising very fast, as his ideas hit search engines (as it takes a while to filter through, as in weeks!). There is no catch here, he is for real and theories definitely work. Also, all tools you will ever need are referenced and clickable. Best of luck websiting, Malcolm Pugh July 2003Herman's site : http://www.isitebuild.com mine : http://www.stiffsteiffs.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk Now I know why people PAY for domain names!!
Malcolm Puygh is an ageing 51 year old from Birmingham England. An ex Civil-Engineer, he worked as a systems programmer for twenty odd years. Now he is a vegetable and puts out strange ezines.
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