5.Be surrendered.

This is ultimate life skill in this 21st Century. It is ultimate skill in any century. Just let go. Do not let sense of ego rule your being. Do not add to this sense of attachment to this illusion of who you think you are. Otherwise you are always living your life second-hand. Simply learn to give yourself way. Give your love for no reason. Be more unreasonable. Come to your senses. Come back to a little more common sense and a lot more awareness of beauty of your body. Leave rational awhile. It is only ever a part of wholeness of who you are.

6.Be Enough

I remind people all time that they are “forever enough.” This is reality of life that is lived first hand. You can improve your life situation but you cannot improve upon first hand experience of life. If you are troubled in life it usually means you are not living first hand. You are living past or future ideas of what life will be or was. There is little or no presence. This life has been gifted to you. You had nothing to do to be gifted it. In every moment it is enough if you know how to receive it. If you can look and see through an open heart then you will come to know. Just for a little while each day stop “trying.” Sit and breathe in and out. Going nowhere all is achieved. It takes time to build this trust. Yet we need to begin.

7.Be grateful

Practice gratitude. This is a great attitude of being. People who teach motivation focus on developing this practice. The right attitude brings results. Only first attitude is that of being. Out of this attitude all else arises. One is simply experience of gratefulness. One is simply experience of celebration. This is life. This is not “your life” dependant on outcomes. It is only moment-to-moment flow of this gift of life that we are freely given. It is free flow of energy of love. When you know this you go beyond. This experience of life is then “beyond belief. It is beyond “Life Coaching.”

Beyond coaching means dropping rather than accumulating. It means commitment to experience of being in present. It means dropping attachment to “your life” in order to live. It is to live life non-separate from love. One moment will be enough because you are forever enough.

Blessings upon you from Corrogue – place of briars.

If you've created a fairly large site yourself and then wanted to add an extra button/option to a menu, only to realise that you now have to change that on 200 pages - all because you didn't implement a way to do this automatically (like using Server Side Includes (SSI)) when you started site, you'll see why it makes sense to go extra mile out of habit, rather than necessity.

This habit of going extra mile applies to everything you do.

I believe that we all have ability to connect with a greater source than ourselves, and that in order to create true success for ourselves we need to adopt habit of doing things for other people. When we give our effort/time/money, we're putting ourselves in line for more of same to return to us. When we go above and beyond normal, we're exposing that 'extra' part of ourselves to universal flow which will reward us back tenfold. The return may not come from person/people who received your value, but it WILL return.

The value you get in return for your work comes in many forms, you automatically increase your experience of any activity you undertake and thereby benefit immediately for any work you do. If your extra effort is in devoting your time to self-improvement or study, this will make you more able to face world with an effective mindset, or give you qualifications that people will pay well for.

If you adopt habit of going extra mile, your rewards are multiple and varied. Anyone can use power of going extra mile, whether you're in a 9-5 job and you stay to finish your work before you leave (rather than jumping and running out at 5pm because it's That time), or whether you spend your evenings educating yourself, or working a second job - you will be rewarded for your efforts.

For Internet Marketers, going extra mile can apply to everything you do, especially when working with or helping other online marketers and people starting out.

I've found this principle powerful in both personal and business environments, so I urge you to use it for your own success.

Regards,

Andy Henry