8.A dash of Spunk and Confidence to taste

A touch of faith in yourself and a little spirit gives spice and color to everything you do.

Combine all these ingredients inside an open mind and let them cool and settle. Lock inside your heart for a good 8 hours while you sleep.

Remember: This recipe is best prepared in evening when you are reflecting and contemplating and is also best served in morning to carry on nutrients until end of day.

Do not hesitate to share this recipe with your friends and family. They may also like this as much you did and maybe you can help them prepare this recipe too.

Authors Note:

You can always add your personal touches or toppings such as a sprinkle of hugs, a cup of love or maybe a handful of words of encouragement and like. Do not be afraid to explore possibilities.

The fact remains, though, that broken relationships lead to broken hearts, and broken hearts hurt. Pain leads to fear, and fear leads to either a total giving up, or an attempt to half commit – with resulting unsatisfactory relationships all round.

So what’s antidote?

Two things, really. First, love yourself. If you can feel good about person you’re guaranteed to wake up with every day of your life, no one can hurt you, because that’s your inner strength. It wouldn’t matter how many times someone told Arnold Schwarzenegger he was a weakling, would it? He would always know that wasn’t true.

Secondly, get clear, really clear, about what you want. And then be honest about that. Do you really want to be with someone with young children? Do you mind if lovely person you’ve just met has an almost zero libido? Or an insatiable one?

Also be flexible with yourself about this. Your wants and needs are going to change. They won’t be same three months after end of a relationship as they will be when three years have elapsed. So you have to learn to listen to your inner self, and not only hear it, but trust it and act on its advice!

What this amounts to actually reduces to an amazing and simple formula for finding and keeping true love. Want to know what it is?

Get to know, like and love person you spend every day with. (For full details of who that is, check your nearest mirror!)

That’s it! That way, you’ll have bundles of love to give away, you’ll be a joy to be around, (which makes you irresistibly attractive), and during those times when you find yourself alone, you’ll be delighted to have your company for a while.

After all, who wouldn’t?